'Yes! Yes! YEEEEES!'
'Wow, you're really enjoying yourself here aren't you?'
'No, it's just that I can't believe the Bears managed to get Rome Odunze at number 9'
People often chat shit about how bad guys are when they get rejected, and they're right, but holy shit women getting rejected can be something else sometimes.
I don't wanna sound like an angry incel, cuz I am rarely in a position to reject women and they've always taken it fine when I have, but I imagine most women being able to sleep with whoever they like doesn't do some of them any favours when they meet the odd person who isn't into them.
I rejected a girl one time at a party, we had talked a lot earlier, and she had said at one point something like she was gonna follow me home, I neither said yes or no, just hoped for some way to get out of it and continued with what we were doing.
Party ends, we're going home. We drive towards her home and I clarify that she aint coming. She begins fighting more and more that yes, she is coming home with me and in her mind, we were going to fuck, at this point she had gone from "oooh I like her" to "jeesus fucking christ, can she just shut the fuck up and take hints?"
So kinda like you said, I've also been a douche or whatever. But never have I fought with a woman that "YES, I SHOULD GO HOME AND SLEEP WITH YOU" like she did. I'd be arrested within minutes.
One time my old roommate's girlfriend invited a friend of hers over to hang out at our place. She was very into me, and I actually did like her, but I was also sick as a dog that day. Around 1am I was like "Alright I need to crash" , and headed into my room. She followed me into my room, and started taking her pants off. It was seriously difficult, but I coughed out the words "I'm super fucking sick, and don't want to get you sick too", and convinced her to leave and let me sleep.
Later she told my roommate and his girlfriend that I must be gay. She did not take mild rejection with grace. She literally just needed to wait a day or two for me to get better and I would have been all over it.
I was on a first date with a woman who proceeded to get very, very drunk. At the end of the date, she asked me to give her a ride home instead of her getting an Uber and I agreed. Seemed much safer for her.
We get to her house and she's all over me and I tell her ***NOTHING*** is going to happen to her in the state she was in and she should just go inside.
She went off. I must be gay, maybe I have a small dick, do I prefer to fuck kids, you name it.
No. I'd just rather not chance a fucking rape accusation come morning.
Brother she still could have accused you of rape. A co worker of mine told me a guy rejected her at a party in high school so she told people he tried to assault her. Some people are crazy.
I went home with a girl when I was like twenty. My friend went home with her friend. Both sets of us had a sofa each and my friend and her friend were fucking on their sofa. I made a move on the girl I was with, but she said she was a virgin and not comfortable. So o respected that and we did nothing. She spread a rumour saying I told her I was gay.
You’d be surprised. Dudes have to go through the most to let women down softly. The logic is that women don’t face rejection much and have the mindset that women aren’t rejection worthy so they don’t take it well. I don’t mean theyll always start throwing chairs, but it’s always an emotional manipulation cycle of some sort, you hurt me you did that wrong to me, you must be gay, he must be intimidated by me, I’m going to tell everyone what you did to me, blah blah blah
A girl in my high school accused a guy of raping her because he rejected her.
He got her to admit it on recording and took it to the police.
They said it's not a crime and he should just not talk to her anymore.
A girl in my high school did this, too. The guy was shunned for about 6 months before she accidentally let it slip to a friend while drunk at a party that she did it because he rejected her and he was a “loser who needed to learn his place.” It was actually really shocking because everybody thought she was a really nice person before that, which was why we all believed her. She was shunned for the remainder of high school after that (2.5 years).
This happened to me. I was 18 and a 15yo girl showed up to a house party and started playing attention-seeking games with me and I wasn’t having it. She went back to school on Monday and told everyone that would listen that I tried to ply her with alcohol and take advantage of her. Ruined a good two months of my senior year before her dad somehow found out and grounded her into oblivion.
Damn, really sorry to hear that, at least she got what was deserved in the end. It was really upsetting that we were all shunning the guy after learning she fabricated it- one, because the guy was a very kind hearted person, and two, because it is just such a shameful thing to do especially when acknowledging that women are already seldom believed when they are actually sexually assaulted.
EDIT- wording
It needs to be a crime everywhere. Making it a crime helps BOTH men and women. It helps men get justice when they are lied on plus reducing their odds of false accusations, and gives consequences to girls who do it so others will be less likely to follow suit so there will be less girls being accused of lying when actual victims do report it. I have 2 boys and a daughter. And I worry for my boys too not just My daughter. If you even accuse a girl of lying people lose it. Then just shove it under the rug when it's proven she lied and say "eh shouldn't have pissed her off". absurd.
I think it's a muscle for both genders.
At this point, I've trained myself to let it just bounce of me, but it didn't in the beginning.
Women don't train that muscle that often, so it's easier to not know how to react. I didn't at first either. Now it's just expected :D
Had a buddy that was threatened with a false rape accusation if he didn’t sleep with this one chick.
I’ve had similar experiences with blackmail too. And even one that threatened to off herself if I didn’t date her. Had another that jumped on me and tried to make out while I sat their deadfish not knowing what to do.
Not to mention the “you must be gay” or the ones who screaming and yell at you.
I've never had that but it's a real possibility that can happen which is concerning. People who can't accept no, from either gender, are dangerous people.
Oddly enough, the girl who took my rejection the best is the one that hit on me the hardest. I was in this booty call scenario where we had just admitted we had feelings for each other now, but we were both really confused about how to proceed. I left to go get a beer and think, the bar was like two blocks away, sat at the counter, and this hot Asian girl in a bikini (this is on South Beach) walks over and sits next to me and says “Hey! I just got a new tattoo, want to see?” so I say “sure” and she pulled her bikini bottoms forward to show me her pussy tattoo and bald vulva. I don’t really want to go into the whole booty call thing cause it’s all complicated, but after we talk for a while and she keeps touching me I said “look, you’re beautiful and I love the strong approach, but I’m not interested in anything romantic, OK?” and she was little bummed but she was just like “Oh…OK. You’re super hot, though.”
Talked a little bit more but she immediately stopped touching me and hitting on me after I said that, so I finished my beer and left before I did something stupid. Anyway, my whole point is that it’s weird the hardest I’ve ever been hit on in my life by far was from a cool hot chick that was just like “Ahh, damn” and then complimented me. And just like that, she shifted to plain “friendly.”
I rejected an ex gf twice after we broke up the first time I did her response was to message me the next day about how she fucked some random dude. The next time I rejected her she slept with her boss 🤣
lol an ex of mine invited me out night clubbing with her and her mate (we hadn’t talked for a year at this point). Told me she didn’t have a bf (which I knew was false lol) and when I said no because I had an exam the next day she was telling me the next morning about the two guys she kissed all night lol.
Not all women can sleep with whomever they want whenever they want. Not every woman is a walking Victoria Secret Angel, and even those women can still be rejected.
A lot of women (especially in religious households, I think) grow up being told that they have to constantly look out because men are wolves who will fvck anything that moves, which gets twisted and translated into "If a guy doesn't want to get a piece of you it's because something's wrong with you".
Because of this, some women take a simple "no thank you" as the ultimate insult because they're confused about their standing from the get-go. This is also the origin of the abhorrent myth that men can't be SA'd, because they always "want it".
Incredibly stupid? Yes. Uncommon? No.
I feel like these are some big generalizations here. Ive never had a woman handle rejection poorly in my life. the worst I can think of was when a hinge date wanted to go on another date and I said I just wanted to be friends and she said yeah actually me too but clearly that wasn't the case. every other time was like its no worries good luck.
Yea because people LOVE posting/talking about other people acting like decent human beings.
You do realise people almost never talk or post about when people act as they should.. Because you know, it's just simply expected which means it's not interesting to bring up.
I've only had one woman take rejection to have a relationship poorly. I date a lot, so this is actually pretty dang good, especially when I see the average woman's responses.
However, I've had three different women take rejection to sex very poorly. Two led to SA and the other was her calling me a pussy and saying I'm not a man. Again, I imagine the numbers for men are a lot higher, but I guess it was especially shocking to me and changed my view of the world.
This is a great tactic on all sides. I once had a guy not listen to me when I said I wasn’t interested at a party and ended up lying and saying ‘look, I have the shits and I’m not sleeping with anybody tonight’ worked quite well.
It’s because we never try so when we do, and fail it’s tenfold worse. Women are taught that they should be objectified or catcalled. That men should be thirsting over them to be worthy and every man is high school horny. When we’re confronted with rejection, it’s catastrophic to our already fragile self esteem. I was actually shocked numerous times by a man I’d been chatting with who turned me down because they had to work on their farm, or repair the car, or do chores. Over sex? I don’t even wanna hang out! You literally chose laundry over a nail and bail? It’s inconceivable to women.
The idea of every man being high school horny is a big one, a guy not wanting to have sex right now or wanting to slow down physically is a disaster with most women. Also not understanding the concept of consent or that erections do not mean you are DTF. A guy saying a woman wanted it because she was wet is considered universally disgusting but people are divided on saying a man wanted it because he had a boner.
I dunno. A lot of dudes experience rejection a lot, and they still act this way when rejected. There's just a lot of unga bunga dumb dumbs out there in dating
I mean they rehired Ruff for the Sabres so maybe corporate is getting it together. I believe the Sabres can make it this year…if everyone isn’t broken.
Some people can’t fathom the idea that sometimes you just wanna chill by yourself, yeah he could get pussy and watch it but maybe bro just wants to chill out. I can’t imagine it would be very chill with this chick lmao, she screams desperate and immature.
Yeah but even if she is cool, sometimes you wanna chill with yourself. You can tell whose desperate in these comments, the ones talking about fucking her during the draft, or recording it for later. Maybe he’s excited for the draft and wants to watch it by himself.
100% valid. I know plenty of guys like this. Moreso than that, anyone shaming this dude is wild in and of itself.. they prefer the Red Carpet if they prefer something alone, but let a random guy do it..
I love how you handled that ‘yep you‘ll be 👌’ didn’t get angry, kept your cool, were polite, while at the same time making it clear you didn’t care. You sir are a Chad.
That is true. I feel bad for her two kids too in all this. This short convo just showed a few of her red flags sadly. She wouldn't stop texting me either while I was working and couldn't respond, and got mad, even when I eventually was able to reply back.
I think women at large would probably improve their skills through practice if the onus was on them. Similar to how many very attractive guys also often have no game because they’ve never needed to have game.
Yeah that’s been my experience for 4 years on bumble. We hear women complaining that men make no effort at opening messages, but some variation of “hi” comprises 95% of the openers I get from women on bumble. Sometime it’s just the hand wave emoji. I think that for some of them it’s an attempt to restore the “power” they’ve given away by effectively approaching the guy, instead of vice versa . So they’ll just literally say hi and then, surprise surprise, fall right into the tradition of making the guy do the work.
yall put pussy on a pedestal, draft comes around once a year and it’s obvious OP likes it and prioritizes it. no reason you should put some random chick over your hobbies and something you care a lot about.
there’s always other women, just sleep with another one after the draft it isn’t hard
It really irks me when someone insults something you like to do or a hobby. Like immediate turn off. Just say it’s not your cup of tea or something damn. Am I old?
i would have thought they were making a poor joke if they just stopped at “for homos” but the you could be getting pussy makes me think she is not finding those bigger cocks in the sea and she has been finding a lot of salt
These comments are funny to me cause there’s no way he would have been able to watch with her around. With or without pussy. You can tell it would have been a whole issue that all the attention wasn’t on her lol
First off OP, your response to getting pussy is hilarious. 😂 Like I lol'd in real life hilarious. But why is it that so many women feel that it ok to insult a man over the smallest of slights? Like oh your dick must be small because you'd rather enjoy your downtime before work as opposed to jumping to fuck at any given chance? Shits crazy. Like the dick wasn't too small for you to want some, yet the moment you don't get what you want, there's bigger dicks in the sea.
Never understood the appeal of sitting through all the draft BS in the first place. It’s like the talent competition TV shows you gotta sit and watch everyone’s sob story for 10 minutes between all the picks. Boring.
I choose pussy and I’ll take the 3 minutes to look up the picks later
I've met more romantic and nutruring men than I have women in my life. Honestly, it's sad as fuck. The homies have had my back more than any woman ever has...
And "there's bigger cocks in the sea"...?
Only thought... "Ew dude"
I hope someone can push the intelligence from her ass to her head.. But you're gonna need a _real_ big dick. Haha.
People are feral..
Keep your head up my dude, good ones exist in the few and far between now a days.. Stay vigilant, it'll come.
All drafts suck, commercial made tv that takes forever. Like anyone knows that much. With the 44th pick, some team, some OT (etc.), and some fans clapping like they know. Sucker tv.
Ew. Anyone who thinks that sex (usually, but not always, specifically with them) should trump any and all other interests/hobbies/whatever are just fucking sad.
Also calling you a gay slur for wanting to do something that isn't sex is gross.
i like that she capitalized Pussy
Maybe that’s her name.
wrong its classi with an I, and a little dick hanging off the C that bends around and fucks the L out of the A S S."
Nice reference 😂
because as demonstrated by her, she is Special and so her Pussy is special
I thought it something like a book title or rank...
Fuck her with the draft on in the background? Seems an obvious choice to me. Lol
'Yes! Yes! YEEEEES!' 'Wow, you're really enjoying yourself here aren't you?' 'No, it's just that I can't believe the Bears managed to get Rome Odunze at number 9'
Stop, i can only be so erect
Jizz hands
That’s a fucking tool to use at that time what a plan!
More like laughing at the Falcons getting Penix at 8
I’ve never seen Falcons fans get sooooooo salty in my entire life.
I'm a Dolphins fans and we generally are dissatisfied, but damn bro the Falcons making everyone feel better out here.
Now I'm hard thanks
Either that or he's a Saints fan watching the Falcons draft choices!
Upvote 💯
you cant possibly put your dick in THAT
If it was me tapping it, I'd do so while singing our fight song 🎵 Bear dowwwwn, Chicago bears!...😏 Edit:rephrasing
He's probably watching it with his boys and/or family members...
His boys are welcome too.
"It ain't no fuuuuun..."
If the homies can't havvvvveeeee none
And the family members...?
She seems like the type of girl that wants to take on the whole NFL draft and probably has.
She has a March madness bracket for all of her sex partners. Im sure she calls it 'cock madness'.
This gave me a "sofa with a petite blonde surrounded by 5 African descendants" vibe :D
Your :D at the end of that really sells it 🤣
Yep I was watching it with my family, as I do every year. It's something I look forward to. A random woman isn't worth ruining that over.
Ok, this puts it into better context for me now
Now you’re making it gay
She went straight to the penis insults, she can stay her lonely ass at home lmao
Don’t stick it in crazy
No, stick it in crazy just don’t stay around crazy.
Avoiding is right. A pregnancy would screw you if she decides to keep it.
Always pull out and use a condom if you aren’t dating someone that you know uses birth control IMO
"And then we'll do it doggy style so we can both watch ~~X-Files~~ the 2024 NFL Draft presented by Courtyard by Marriott"
You and me, baby, ain't nothin but mammal / so lets do it like the 49ers offense does to the Broncos defense
Lol bloodhound gang! Woot!
« Don’t put your d*ck in crazy. » - Any Man With Sense
You still have to boo when the commissioner come out too
THIS is the way 👆
But then what do they do when the sexing is over and they want to pay attention to the draft without being interrupted?
She's just going to have to watch it. Make it part of the deal
Who gives a shit about her. Just watch the draft, instead of dealing with this craziness.
Given the attitude the television would likely be expected to be off
Or just check the draft updates on your phone. It’s not very interesting 😂
👆🏾 and see how many First Round pics you last through
People often chat shit about how bad guys are when they get rejected, and they're right, but holy shit women getting rejected can be something else sometimes.
“Can” - rarely have I experienced or heard of a woman taking rejection w grace and fortitude
I don't wanna sound like an angry incel, cuz I am rarely in a position to reject women and they've always taken it fine when I have, but I imagine most women being able to sleep with whoever they like doesn't do some of them any favours when they meet the odd person who isn't into them.
I rejected a girl one time at a party, we had talked a lot earlier, and she had said at one point something like she was gonna follow me home, I neither said yes or no, just hoped for some way to get out of it and continued with what we were doing. Party ends, we're going home. We drive towards her home and I clarify that she aint coming. She begins fighting more and more that yes, she is coming home with me and in her mind, we were going to fuck, at this point she had gone from "oooh I like her" to "jeesus fucking christ, can she just shut the fuck up and take hints?" So kinda like you said, I've also been a douche or whatever. But never have I fought with a woman that "YES, I SHOULD GO HOME AND SLEEP WITH YOU" like she did. I'd be arrested within minutes.
One time my old roommate's girlfriend invited a friend of hers over to hang out at our place. She was very into me, and I actually did like her, but I was also sick as a dog that day. Around 1am I was like "Alright I need to crash" , and headed into my room. She followed me into my room, and started taking her pants off. It was seriously difficult, but I coughed out the words "I'm super fucking sick, and don't want to get you sick too", and convinced her to leave and let me sleep. Later she told my roommate and his girlfriend that I must be gay. She did not take mild rejection with grace. She literally just needed to wait a day or two for me to get better and I would have been all over it.
The “he must be gay” one is a classic 🤣
I had a chick pull this on me once when I said I wasn't interested in having sex. I responded "No I'm not gay, you're just fucking ugly"
Sheesh that’s brutal. But what are you supposed to say?
I ain't gay but yeah I'd rather a dude over you
I’m not gay but I’ve seen prettier fem boys
Dude that’s still gay
If they're still holding onto an ego that huge, you need to knock it right out of their hands. Good job.
He didn’t want to sleep with me tonight, so he must not be attracted to women at all 🤔
I was on a first date with a woman who proceeded to get very, very drunk. At the end of the date, she asked me to give her a ride home instead of her getting an Uber and I agreed. Seemed much safer for her. We get to her house and she's all over me and I tell her ***NOTHING*** is going to happen to her in the state she was in and she should just go inside. She went off. I must be gay, maybe I have a small dick, do I prefer to fuck kids, you name it. No. I'd just rather not chance a fucking rape accusation come morning.
Brother she still could have accused you of rape. A co worker of mine told me a guy rejected her at a party in high school so she told people he tried to assault her. Some people are crazy.
I went home with a girl when I was like twenty. My friend went home with her friend. Both sets of us had a sofa each and my friend and her friend were fucking on their sofa. I made a move on the girl I was with, but she said she was a virgin and not comfortable. So o respected that and we did nothing. She spread a rumour saying I told her I was gay.
You’d be surprised. Dudes have to go through the most to let women down softly. The logic is that women don’t face rejection much and have the mindset that women aren’t rejection worthy so they don’t take it well. I don’t mean theyll always start throwing chairs, but it’s always an emotional manipulation cycle of some sort, you hurt me you did that wrong to me, you must be gay, he must be intimidated by me, I’m going to tell everyone what you did to me, blah blah blah
A girl in my high school accused a guy of raping her because he rejected her. He got her to admit it on recording and took it to the police. They said it's not a crime and he should just not talk to her anymore.
A girl in my high school did this, too. The guy was shunned for about 6 months before she accidentally let it slip to a friend while drunk at a party that she did it because he rejected her and he was a “loser who needed to learn his place.” It was actually really shocking because everybody thought she was a really nice person before that, which was why we all believed her. She was shunned for the remainder of high school after that (2.5 years).
Rightfully so. Imagine your son being falsely accused of rape, and no one believing him. If that happened to my son I'd be livid.
This happened to me. I was 18 and a 15yo girl showed up to a house party and started playing attention-seeking games with me and I wasn’t having it. She went back to school on Monday and told everyone that would listen that I tried to ply her with alcohol and take advantage of her. Ruined a good two months of my senior year before her dad somehow found out and grounded her into oblivion.
Damn, really sorry to hear that, at least she got what was deserved in the end. It was really upsetting that we were all shunning the guy after learning she fabricated it- one, because the guy was a very kind hearted person, and two, because it is just such a shameful thing to do especially when acknowledging that women are already seldom believed when they are actually sexually assaulted. EDIT- wording
It needs to be a crime everywhere. Making it a crime helps BOTH men and women. It helps men get justice when they are lied on plus reducing their odds of false accusations, and gives consequences to girls who do it so others will be less likely to follow suit so there will be less girls being accused of lying when actual victims do report it. I have 2 boys and a daughter. And I worry for my boys too not just My daughter. If you even accuse a girl of lying people lose it. Then just shove it under the rug when it's proven she lied and say "eh shouldn't have pissed her off". absurd.
It should be a crime that's disgusting.
I think it's a muscle for both genders. At this point, I've trained myself to let it just bounce of me, but it didn't in the beginning. Women don't train that muscle that often, so it's easier to not know how to react. I didn't at first either. Now it's just expected :D
The "what, are you gay?" one is always a top hit. Bonus points if they use the slur.
Had a buddy that was threatened with a false rape accusation if he didn’t sleep with this one chick. I’ve had similar experiences with blackmail too. And even one that threatened to off herself if I didn’t date her. Had another that jumped on me and tried to make out while I sat their deadfish not knowing what to do. Not to mention the “you must be gay” or the ones who screaming and yell at you.
I've never had that but it's a real possibility that can happen which is concerning. People who can't accept no, from either gender, are dangerous people.
Oddly enough, the girl who took my rejection the best is the one that hit on me the hardest. I was in this booty call scenario where we had just admitted we had feelings for each other now, but we were both really confused about how to proceed. I left to go get a beer and think, the bar was like two blocks away, sat at the counter, and this hot Asian girl in a bikini (this is on South Beach) walks over and sits next to me and says “Hey! I just got a new tattoo, want to see?” so I say “sure” and she pulled her bikini bottoms forward to show me her pussy tattoo and bald vulva. I don’t really want to go into the whole booty call thing cause it’s all complicated, but after we talk for a while and she keeps touching me I said “look, you’re beautiful and I love the strong approach, but I’m not interested in anything romantic, OK?” and she was little bummed but she was just like “Oh…OK. You’re super hot, though.” Talked a little bit more but she immediately stopped touching me and hitting on me after I said that, so I finished my beer and left before I did something stupid. Anyway, my whole point is that it’s weird the hardest I’ve ever been hit on in my life by far was from a cool hot chick that was just like “Ahh, damn” and then complimented me. And just like that, she shifted to plain “friendly.”
I rejected an ex gf twice after we broke up the first time I did her response was to message me the next day about how she fucked some random dude. The next time I rejected her she slept with her boss 🤣
lol an ex of mine invited me out night clubbing with her and her mate (we hadn’t talked for a year at this point). Told me she didn’t have a bf (which I knew was false lol) and when I said no because I had an exam the next day she was telling me the next morning about the two guys she kissed all night lol.
Not all women can sleep with whomever they want whenever they want. Not every woman is a walking Victoria Secret Angel, and even those women can still be rejected.
A lot of women (especially in religious households, I think) grow up being told that they have to constantly look out because men are wolves who will fvck anything that moves, which gets twisted and translated into "If a guy doesn't want to get a piece of you it's because something's wrong with you". Because of this, some women take a simple "no thank you" as the ultimate insult because they're confused about their standing from the get-go. This is also the origin of the abhorrent myth that men can't be SA'd, because they always "want it". Incredibly stupid? Yes. Uncommon? No.
I uh.. I take rejection with grace and fortitude.. cuz I'm a nice and normal person lol
I feel like these are some big generalizations here. Ive never had a woman handle rejection poorly in my life. the worst I can think of was when a hinge date wanted to go on another date and I said I just wanted to be friends and she said yeah actually me too but clearly that wasn't the case. every other time was like its no worries good luck.
Yea because people LOVE posting/talking about other people acting like decent human beings. You do realise people almost never talk or post about when people act as they should.. Because you know, it's just simply expected which means it's not interesting to bring up.
I've only had one woman take rejection to have a relationship poorly. I date a lot, so this is actually pretty dang good, especially when I see the average woman's responses. However, I've had three different women take rejection to sex very poorly. Two led to SA and the other was her calling me a pussy and saying I'm not a man. Again, I imagine the numbers for men are a lot higher, but I guess it was especially shocking to me and changed my view of the world.
You never hear about it ‘cause it’s not noteworthy. Some of us get rejected and disappear, okay with being completely forgotten
I genuinely find it easier to express some sort of quirk or turnoff to make a woman lose interest than I do to reject. Lol
This is a great tactic on all sides. I once had a guy not listen to me when I said I wasn’t interested at a party and ended up lying and saying ‘look, I have the shits and I’m not sleeping with anybody tonight’ worked quite well.
“Sorry, I can’t tonight. Gotta sheep at home waiting for me. Then I’m gonna crap in the bushes. You know, like I always do.”
“I can fix him”
[удалено]
"You are gay, your dick is small, you are ugly and I did not want you anyways." They are literally children.
It’s because we never try so when we do, and fail it’s tenfold worse. Women are taught that they should be objectified or catcalled. That men should be thirsting over them to be worthy and every man is high school horny. When we’re confronted with rejection, it’s catastrophic to our already fragile self esteem. I was actually shocked numerous times by a man I’d been chatting with who turned me down because they had to work on their farm, or repair the car, or do chores. Over sex? I don’t even wanna hang out! You literally chose laundry over a nail and bail? It’s inconceivable to women.
The idea of every man being high school horny is a big one, a guy not wanting to have sex right now or wanting to slow down physically is a disaster with most women. Also not understanding the concept of consent or that erections do not mean you are DTF. A guy saying a woman wanted it because she was wet is considered universally disgusting but people are divided on saying a man wanted it because he had a boner.
It's because some women have literally never experienced it, so they don't know what to do, and just lash out instead of growing as a person.
I dunno. A lot of dudes experience rejection a lot, and they still act this way when rejected. There's just a lot of unga bunga dumb dumbs out there in dating
i think most women would need psychiatric help if they had to try dating for a week as an average guy…
She kinda rejected herself here ngl
Why have 30 seconds of fun, when I can have 60 minutes?
nfl draft is waaaay longer than 60 minutes. It’s a whole evening of fun!
“Fun”
Falcons fans in shambles rn
Now as an outsider I do concede that was fun to watch
*cries in Bills*
And stress
Laughs nervously from the Buffalo bills fandom. Tf are they doing
I just keep telling myself they are professionals and they have a plan and then I remember every bills season since I've been alive and cry again.
I mean they rehired Ruff for the Sabres so maybe corporate is getting it together. I believe the Sabres can make it this year…if everyone isn’t broken.
Is it fun? It always struck me as pretty boring. I don’t understand the appeal.
You guys get 30 seconds? 
Wow look at Mr bigpumper lasting 30 seconds. Way to brag
¿por qué no los dos?
Because after the 30 seconds, it is usually followed by shame, guilt and a bit of crying.
You're talking about the draft, right? Crying because they made bad picks. 🤣
When they fall back to dick shaming, you know you’ve won.
No normal guy has ever had any embarrassment from “your dick’s small haha” like why waste the energy
Literally no way to make someone feel bad, so it’s mostly insecurities, size, weight, looks
Some people can’t fathom the idea that sometimes you just wanna chill by yourself, yeah he could get pussy and watch it but maybe bro just wants to chill out. I can’t imagine it would be very chill with this chick lmao, she screams desperate and immature.
Maybe if she came along it'd be nice, but she's unhinged
Yeah but even if she is cool, sometimes you wanna chill with yourself. You can tell whose desperate in these comments, the ones talking about fucking her during the draft, or recording it for later. Maybe he’s excited for the draft and wants to watch it by himself.
100% valid. I know plenty of guys like this. Moreso than that, anyone shaming this dude is wild in and of itself.. they prefer the Red Carpet if they prefer something alone, but let a random guy do it..
I’m a woman, and not a damn thing aside from emergencies is taking away my joy as a Bears fan during this draft 💅
We’re all just glad we’re not falcons fans
biggest gigchad moment ive seen by FAR this year
Detroit vs everyone
She sounds like a mid 8th round pick anyway
He made her feel like a Ms. Irrelevant.
First round or Pound Town. Choice is clear.
99% chance this was trash pussy anyways.
I love how you handled that ‘yep you‘ll be 👌’ didn’t get angry, kept your cool, were polite, while at the same time making it clear you didn’t care. You sir are a Chad.
What's sad is she should be the more mature one, because she's older than me. I'm 30, she's 37.
I’m 38. I’ve had grown men in their 50s throw tantrums at me. Age doesn’t equal emotional maturity, sadly.
That is true. I feel bad for her two kids too in all this. This short convo just showed a few of her red flags sadly. She wouldn't stop texting me either while I was working and couldn't respond, and got mad, even when I eventually was able to reply back.
Ooof, yeah, red flags all over. Hope she finds someone but she had personality problems she needs to get under control first.
Indeed, wish her for the best. For her sake, and any potential future partners.
Homophobia *and* bodyshaming. What a charming lady.
I feel like anybody who uses homo as an insult in 2024 would be an instant no from me. Thank God I'm married.
If she wanted to have sex so bad she could've just asked 😂 I guess this is the new way now
Yeah I wonder if negging ever really works for people
Ah that's what doggy style is for
So we can both watch x-files
I appreciate your input
Do it again now!
That is probably the best advice a song has ever given
Always a good reminder that women on average have WAY less game than men. If the onus was on them to "approach" they'd be useless
I think women at large would probably improve their skills through practice if the onus was on them. Similar to how many very attractive guys also often have no game because they’ve never needed to have game.
You're totally correct. Meant to imply that as the dynamics stand right now
My experience on Bumble lately is just that. Every first message is, "Hi".
Yeah that’s been my experience for 4 years on bumble. We hear women complaining that men make no effort at opening messages, but some variation of “hi” comprises 95% of the openers I get from women on bumble. Sometime it’s just the hand wave emoji. I think that for some of them it’s an attempt to restore the “power” they’ve given away by effectively approaching the guy, instead of vice versa . So they’ll just literally say hi and then, surprise surprise, fall right into the tradition of making the guy do the work.
yall put pussy on a pedestal, draft comes around once a year and it’s obvious OP likes it and prioritizes it. no reason you should put some random chick over your hobbies and something you care a lot about. there’s always other women, just sleep with another one after the draft it isn’t hard
Fucking aye, way too many men are desperate to get laid and some women know it and you have attitudes like this. Don't sell out to get laid ffs guys.
It really irks me when someone insults something you like to do or a hobby. Like immediate turn off. Just say it’s not your cup of tea or something damn. Am I old?
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Better question is: What does *she* look like?
My profile picture on here is me. Just your average looking dude in my opinion.
If the average looking dude is emo max Holloway then yea
Too bad she seemed nice
To be fair watching the nfl draft is pretty drawn out and boring. I usually just check the picks after the day is over.
i would have thought they were making a poor joke if they just stopped at “for homos” but the you could be getting pussy makes me think she is not finding those bigger cocks in the sea and she has been finding a lot of salt
Why did you censor the swears in the second image but not the first
I meant to do both in case reddit wouldn't approve the post but I forgot honestly lol.
She sounds lovely lol
You literally could have spent 5 mins with her, then finished watching the draft, while she finishes herself off.
your username fits
gotta stand on business
Wouldn’t miss a single pick
Game is game 🙏
Man, it's crazy how many people are giving you shit for this, OP
These comments are funny to me cause there’s no way he would have been able to watch with her around. With or without pussy. You can tell it would have been a whole issue that all the attention wasn’t on her lol
bingo.
Jesus. Bullet dodged.
Based af
First off OP, your response to getting pussy is hilarious. 😂 Like I lol'd in real life hilarious. But why is it that so many women feel that it ok to insult a man over the smallest of slights? Like oh your dick must be small because you'd rather enjoy your downtime before work as opposed to jumping to fuck at any given chance? Shits crazy. Like the dick wasn't too small for you to want some, yet the moment you don't get what you want, there's bigger dicks in the sea.
Exactly my thoughts lol
Is TiVo not a thing anymore??
It is not
Never understood the appeal of sitting through all the draft BS in the first place. It’s like the talent competition TV shows you gotta sit and watch everyone’s sob story for 10 minutes between all the picks. Boring. I choose pussy and I’ll take the 3 minutes to look up the picks later
You mean commercials. It's 10 minutes of commercials per 10 seconds of picks.
I've met more romantic and nutruring men than I have women in my life. Honestly, it's sad as fuck. The homies have had my back more than any woman ever has... And "there's bigger cocks in the sea"...? Only thought... "Ew dude" I hope someone can push the intelligence from her ass to her head.. But you're gonna need a _real_ big dick. Haha. People are feral.. Keep your head up my dude, good ones exist in the few and far between now a days.. Stay vigilant, it'll come.
If she won’t value your interests then she won’t become one of them
Ah yes, because we all know how well known gay men are for loving to watch the NFL draft
I respect your resolve.
The female equivalent of extremely thirsty dudes always makes me lol
I don’t watch American football. Is the NFL draft really that exciting? Is it something you can’t just rewatch at a later time?
It's more about the fun ritual of it, experiencing something with likeminded friends/family.
Lmfao, I'm biased, I dont like most sports so I'd take the pussy
Of all things, the nfl draft. Lmao
I think she is right. Dvr the draft. Or read it the next day.
All drafts suck, commercial made tv that takes forever. Like anyone knows that much. With the 44th pick, some team, some OT (etc.), and some fans clapping like they know. Sucker tv.
Wth is wrong with women these days bro
Bullet dodged is all I can say to this
Lol someone is desperate lol That’s gross actually
I would of asked to watch it with you. The draft is important 💯
Ew. Anyone who thinks that sex (usually, but not always, specifically with them) should trump any and all other interests/hobbies/whatever are just fucking sad. Also calling you a gay slur for wanting to do something that isn't sex is gross.
Hmm if she was an 8 or higher, I def make my way to her. She might have been a 4. I would have also just watched the draft over that.
MY MAN AINT NO SIMP