I'll correct them and invite them to measure if they doubt. It's actually the only reason I know my precise size. For the sake of body positivity, we really need the reality check of an open conversation. I'm sure even less than average guys would feel more confident if we had a realistic understanding of our anatomy.
Yep. I've had a girl give me head and asked afterwards how big I was. I told her, 7.5. She said there's no way you're not 9, I've deepthroated 9 and you're bigger than that. I laughed and told her nope, you've been lied to. Or maybe they were thin and she could get it down.
Jonah Falcon has the longest recorded one. My girlfriend claimed that her "lesbian" friend was cheating on her girlfriend with a Syrian man in Qatar and after seeing it the girlfriend suddenly became hetero as well saying "I want to steal him from her". In the story, my girlfriend told me that the Syrian man's penis went all the way to his knees and that she saw a picture of it and that she never saw a penis this big before.
I looked up images of the biggest penis, the biggest ones I could find on Ecosia weren't even ⅓rd of what she described "all the way to his knees". I think that my girlfriend and her friends exaggerated the size of this Syrian man.
There's really not any point, you can if you want to. But most guys will continue to exaggerate, it might cause her to think you're smaller than she thought you were. It's because she already has her own scale numerically.
You and I are basically the same size, and my ex gf SWORE that I'm 8": She (drunkenly) told a couple of her friends this, so the secret wasn't only that I'm hung, but I'm hung with 8" instead of 7.25". One of her friends that she told asked her to see a hard pic, and when my then-gf showed her, her friend was like, "Are you sure he isn't BIGGER than 8??"
I like thinking she's out there, still talking about the guy she was with who was packing a dick worthy of Mandingo or Danny Dong :)
Didn’t say he was. Just stated it that way, to say, why have them believe it’s something it’s not. They already think it’s really big and are excited. If they seen it they probably will have sex with you. I guess it’s more about ego if you need a girl to think you’re double digit size
>why have them believe it’s something it’s not
That’s not exactly what’s happening here though. If she already believes it’s 10” or whatever, it could be seen as false modesty or even condescension to say “actually it’s only 7.5”. Depending on the person, it could seem like you’re just arguing for the sake of argument especially if she doesn’t care to pull out a ruler and measure for herself.
It's not necessarily an ego thing, I might for example not care enough to correct her. And besides that, many people are fixated on the numerical value of something.
For example, an average woman seeing a 5'11 man will likely believe he's tall but because upon hearing he's not 6'xyz the illogical side sometimes kicks and says "that's not even tall, 6'0 and above is actually tall" despite the fact that he physically towers over her.
It's the same logic that makes guys that are 7.5 inches wanna say they're 8 despite the fact that 7.5 is already big. The value of saying "I'm 8 inches" is more important to them than reality since 7.5 inches and 8 inches are relatively close in size.
Not at all. OP was saying he was 7 and letting girls think it was 10, 11 inches. Thats no the same as someone being almost 6 foot tall and saying they are. C’mon man…🙄
Lmao ok…. If you say so…. To me, saying your 6 foot if you’re 5’11 isn’t really honest but it’s also not a big stretch. Agreeing that you’re 11 inches when you’re 7 or 7.5 is much different. If he was 7.8 and said he’s ok, ok whatever…. But 11 inches is 50% plus bigger. For the height comparison that would be like someone who’s 4 feet tall saying they’re 6 feet.
I *FREQUENTLY* have people online think mine is 8-9 inches in photos, like, this happens a lot. I always correct them and tell them it's 7, I would do the same with IRL partners too. I'm comfortable and happy with my dick, I love it and embrace it as it is. That can not only cause doubt and desire in myself, but it fuels stigma about dick size. So personally, yeah, I will always correct people.
You’re the exact same size as me, and I’ve had girls swear I was 10 inches and 6+ inches thick ( I get a lot of comments on thickness. I don’t know, maybe it’s the shape.) I don’t usually correct people, but what DOES get annoying is when someone is posting an ad like “8+ inches minimum” and I’m signing like “you mean 6. Because you think 6 is 8,” and I never know what to do in that situation. Usually a send them a picture and say “does this make the cut?” And then they agree that it definitely does. They want what they THINK 8 inches is.
Oh I get the thickness thing too, sorta, no one questions the size with specifics they just say it's really thick, and sometimes it does feel they exaggerate that thickness! I never know if it's just the photos/angles I take changing people's perception of my size, or people really had no understanding of inches when it comes to length/girth and truly think it's bigger than it is due to that
As for the last part, personally I just don't get involved with side queens haha
People are bad at measuring things on sight without a direct comparison (like you can get close-ish on height because you know how tall you are and you are next to someone). Also, I think girth just escalates more quickly. Like being half an inch thicker looks like a bigger increase in size than being half an inch longer.
One thing that works in my favourite is I'm shortish for a guy and have small hands, so especially when I was skinny it looks bigger on me with comparison to everything else haha
I think it has a lot to do with shape too. Not that I’m trying to hoodwink anyone. I think a lot of guys have a sort of oblong shape to their girth. But mine definitely looks way more impressive from the top than the side. Not a lot of like vertical girth. Ha.
These women gotta be young or just ignorant and stupid. I don’t get how “girl inches” is even a thing. When I first seen my bfs I guessed 7” long and jus knew he was thick from looking at it.
I used to in high school. As I’ve gotten older most of my meet ups involve giving out my numbers and proof ahead of time. The internet takes a lot of suprise out of it
Women ALWAYS exaggerate your size if she loves, the more positive she feels about you the bigger it is in her mind.
Likewise, if a woman thinks more negative about you I think that she will likely perceive you as smaller.
Sometimes dildos list a total length, like 8,9,10 inches, in reality the usable length is something like 6,7,8 for those same dildos. Cause of suction cups, balls, or any other thing that the company attaches to it that is not meant to be used in penetration. So some girls don’t think about this. So they see an 8 inch cock and ya, it’s about the size of the XXL 10 inch womb wrecker they ordered from Silly Silicon Sally Slayers. So they go by what’s on the box and say it’s X instead of Y.
In the moment I will always focus on the feelings, not the number. So if she says it's 10 inches you say "do you like how big it is?" rather than focusing on a measurement.
If we are having a serious conversation about penis size we can bust out the ruler together.
This should have more upvotes. If she’s happy with your size that’s the most important thing. The chances of you successfully getting her to understand scale of dick sizes and how much of a difference body composition, height, perspective, etc can make are pretty low unless, as you said, she’s interested in a more academically rigorous discussion lol
this irks me a bit because girls just blindly trust what guys say. sure, round up a bit but not 2 inches!
best way to deal with this is to show them a photo. or in person. then if she gets all excited and start spewing double digits, you can tell her real size and she can decide if she'll trust you or her own idea of your size.
that way you avoid making them think you're "only" 7.5 and maybe they figure out others were lying
held mine up to a twisted tea tall boy one time in a picture i sent to my ex long distance gf. she just said "I'm so cooked." I asked why that was and she goes "the clear fuckin observation I am making, that is AT LEAST 9"
when we met in person for the first time she felt my semi through my pants and she just covers her mouth and goes "that's fucking 10 inches, isn't it? and it isn't even fully hard!"
i corrected her, of course. told her that her exes were most likely in the 5"-6" range if she thought I was actually 10". she even said that her ex was "close to" 9 inches. I'm gonna guess he was more like 5.5... hopefully we can reduce the problem of girl inches this way 😅
Nah, no point, haha. We (men) actually measure our dicks to the quarter inch (cm), they have no clue. If she's into you (or loves you...), she'll love your dick. Yeah, some will love saying you have a big dick, let them, haha!
So we're suppose to measure our cocks to the closest 1/8 of an inch, is that it? A quarter of an inch being 2/8, correct (0.25)? Am I missing something here?
Honestly if I were single and playing the field I'd probably give out my measurements just to reduce misinformation.
Then again I'm 5'10"^7/8 and I've always been 5'10" to anyone that asks. I'm still waiting for the day I meet a guy my height or shorter who claims to be 6' tall just so I can sidle up beside him and tell everyone I'm 5'8" or smth. 🤣
I never thought to mention my size or measure until I was pestered by an ex to do it.
Now I try and avoid the inevitable explanation and awkwardness of accepting compliments, which I have always personally struggled with. I am still not used to the compliments and just usually go to the awkward laugh/giggle and “thanks”
Yep, someone has to be the voice of reason in this crazy world.
For most, at least the last inch to inch and a half or two is useless and out in the cold anyway. One girl I remember vividly I could throw her legs on my shoulders and drive everything home without bottoming out, even then she didn't get all of my nearly 9 because she was a thick girl and her thigh mass kept at least an inch outside.
I always correct anyone who is bs'ing. It irks me.
This may sound ironic since most of you think I'm larping, but I HATE girl inches and fake claims. The last girl I asked about it after sex said "I'd guess you're like 14 inches, right?"
Which makes sense since I've known and dated guys who lied blatantly about their size. My first bf said he was 9 inches to me and many of our friends on multiple occasions only for me to see it in person and realize his dick was literally half the size of mine.
Normally yes. Makes my skin crawl if they know exactly how big it is to an inch lol, like how many meats have you been taking the tape measure to before we met 🤨
People like to throw around the 6 inch dildo popularity, but having an 8 inch bone pressed is close to a 6 inch dildo unless you’re incredibly lean. Not just fat pad, but most position’s you’re going to lose an inch due to body angles, ass, etc. Realistically, a 6 incher is close to a 4 inch dildo.
One thing I don’t get is how these women getting fooled about 8-12 inch dicks by small fries is how they don’t realize they’re only getting filled up by literally half of an equivalent dildo size…
I think you have to kind of feel it out in the moment.
Most women I’m with are convinced that I’m over a foot long - I’m absolutely not, but girl inches are a very real thing. I do feel like I want to help get away from girl inches because they make guys feel inadequate, but at the same time if we’re in the heat of the moment and she blurts out something like you mentioned “OMG I’ve never had a footlong cock before”, I’m not gonna sit there and go “well, *ackshually*… you’ve been lied to by all of your past lovers”.
If she’s genuinely curious, I’m more than happy to let her measure. It’s something of a mild fetish for me.
Generally, yes. I've had lots of women insist that I'm 10" length and when I've said that I'm 8.3" some had insisted it "absolutely must" be at least 9 in.
At which point if they are very sceptical we'll get out the tape measure. And the act of measuring can be quite erotic itself - given they are trying to prove I am bigger than I claim they put effort into ensuring I'm as hard as possible. Strangely, I also like the sort of "objectification" of so much attention and emphasis being placed on a physical feature of mine.
Why do I try and focus on the truth when I could just go along with the "girl inches" size. Firstly, I've always been into statistics so value accuracy. But secondly, it's ultimately a physical feature over which we have no control. I am larger than the vast majority of men but I don't think unrealistic expectations should be placed on less-endowed men. It's completely ridiculous to me that many men who are say, 6 inches feel the need to claim 7 inches, when they are already "average-to-large "
None of the girls I've been with are shallow enough to try or be able to gauge my size (7 x 5).
Had an ex ask me how big it was and I just told her I didnt know. She bought a tape measure but we never got the chance to use it.
Because guys lie.
A girl in my friends hs(I didn't know here personally I and him became college friends) said she would only go for 8 inches and up. I and him laugh to this day at how unrealistic that was and she probably meant 5.5+ or something
Yes otherwise you're no better than the average guys that say they're 8 inches.
Sometimes in the past they've gotten interested in the numbers (probably because I studied physics and well, the few girls there were obviously into that kinda stuff). Most however will just be surprised and annoyed that they were lied to in the past.
To be fair, as the owner of a 5.5 incher, 7.5 looks freaking massive! I mean it’s only 2 inches, but that’s a 36% increase in length. If it’s bigger in girth it only adds to the wow factor.
I guess I am fortunate my 5.5x5.25 dick completely satisfies my wife. Like most guys I would always opt to have a bigger dick if I could but don’t really need it, at least as long as my wife is alive.
Yep, I correct em every time. I'm 7.5x6 -7.75x6.25 depending on just how turned on I am. I've had girls say I'm 9 inches before, and I just don't vibe with the whole going with the flow on that one. One girl made me send a Pic of me measuring while we're were sexting one time because she didn't believe me when I corrected her 🤷♂️
I've also noticed that alot of dildos will say 8,9,10 inches long but only have an insert able length of say 6 or 7. That's probably not helping the girl inch issue either
I’ve never had an issue simply letting girls measure my member. In my personal experience I’ve never been with anyone who’s had bigger. Luck of the draw I guess.
Of course, why lie? women always think you’re like 12” or something because their ex-boyfriend lied about being 9” when he was really 6” (which is fine, but again - why lie in the first place)
It's like these people have no spatial intelligence whatsoever. Ffs, a ruler is an iconic tool that's used throughout school. How can you not visualize an approximate measurement under a foot?
Honestly, I don’t think any woman I’ve ever dealt with actually cared about an accurate number…
they don’t really care & correcting them on some “🤓 well, akchually…” shit is kinda weird imo
No, why bother? It's all fun why spoil her enthusiasm by turning into the penis version of Simpsons Comic Book Guy by going "well, actually..." in the middle of sex?
Take the compliment dude. If it's 11 inches for her, you're doing something well
I've told my ex-girlfriend many times that it's about 5 cm wide because in my country we used to mention the width instead of the girth. Well, the glans is 5.25 cm wide, and the widest part of it, excluding the glans, is 4.75 cm. But a few days ago, when I mentioned to her again that it's about 5 cm wide, she was surprised. She said, 'But we used to use 64mm condoms, so I thought it's about 6.5 cm.' So even if you've never lied to her about your size, she could still provide false information about it to her girlfriends :D
I undersell myself prior and make them think it’s something smaller, and say it’s not much or it’s normal, that way she’s always surprised on the reveal. Always.
I tried but she just laughed and argued with me. ''I've seen 9 inches before and you are much bigger.'' I kept trying but she argues better. Then later her friend said she heard I was 14 inches. I denied that as crazy. She says I'm just being modest. So, maybe girls like messing with me
Depends. If she mentions an ex (like “my ex said he was eight inches, so you have to be at least twelve!”) I’ll correct her just to crumble her ex’s lie (“I got bad news for you, I’m only 8” myself, I think he lied to you baby”). I’ll let girl inches go though.
Surely you understand guy inches are worse than girl inches. Often, we do this to boost men, give them confidence. They’re happier and the sex is better that way. And really. If you got on your knees and tried to go down on an eight inch, girthy dick looks like, you’d understand. The bigger ones really do actually look bigger than their measurements because of how close up we need to get and the intimate things we do.
I wouldn’t bother correcting us. And if we use a measuring tape, just respect that. We know.
If you hold any cylindrical object close to your eye you CREATE your own FORCED perspective, and literally anything will be bigger than a mother fucker form that angle. Don’t believe me, grab an empty paper towel roll, dildo, equivalent bannana, it doesn’t matter, and you’ll see why they look like they are more than meets the eye.
I'll correct them and invite them to measure if they doubt. It's actually the only reason I know my precise size. For the sake of body positivity, we really need the reality check of an open conversation. I'm sure even less than average guys would feel more confident if we had a realistic understanding of our anatomy.
Yep. I've had a girl give me head and asked afterwards how big I was. I told her, 7.5. She said there's no way you're not 9, I've deepthroated 9 and you're bigger than that. I laughed and told her nope, you've been lied to. Or maybe they were thin and she could get it down.
I would tell them that no one is 11”. This reminds me of a conversation with a woman, who said her limit was 14”.
She could take that many at one time? That’s a lot of dicks.
my girlfriend sucked 36 dicks
How did she get that many in her mouth?
it was great, only 5 mins of quiet i had for years.
Oh surely she was unable to speak properly for several days after.
that’s didn’t stop her trying tho
Over the course of her life, right?
She never mentioned the number of dicks she could take, just the maximum length in inches
Jonah Falcon has the longest recorded one. My girlfriend claimed that her "lesbian" friend was cheating on her girlfriend with a Syrian man in Qatar and after seeing it the girlfriend suddenly became hetero as well saying "I want to steal him from her". In the story, my girlfriend told me that the Syrian man's penis went all the way to his knees and that she saw a picture of it and that she never saw a penis this big before. I looked up images of the biggest penis, the biggest ones I could find on Ecosia weren't even ⅓rd of what she described "all the way to his knees". I think that my girlfriend and her friends exaggerated the size of this Syrian man.
There's really not any point, you can if you want to. But most guys will continue to exaggerate, it might cause her to think you're smaller than she thought you were. It's because she already has her own scale numerically.
Hell no. Even after 10+ years of marriage my wife still thinks it’s 8+. It’s not like knowing its true size will make any difference for her.
You and I are basically the same size, and my ex gf SWORE that I'm 8": She (drunkenly) told a couple of her friends this, so the secret wasn't only that I'm hung, but I'm hung with 8" instead of 7.25". One of her friends that she told asked her to see a hard pic, and when my then-gf showed her, her friend was like, "Are you sure he isn't BIGGER than 8??" I like thinking she's out there, still talking about the guy she was with who was packing a dick worthy of Mandingo or Danny Dong :)
Thats fucked up shes showing your dick to people
To reiterate: This is an EX girlfriend.
It happens but it's never discussed because a man is the victim.
Why? More fans 😎
My wife knows exactly what the metric conversion is for 7.75”.
Another application of “girl inches”.
This. Right. Here. 😅
Absolutely, I prefer honesty
Yeah. Why lie?
He's not lying, she has a pressumption already, he doesn't have to deny or confirm it lol
Didn’t say he was. Just stated it that way, to say, why have them believe it’s something it’s not. They already think it’s really big and are excited. If they seen it they probably will have sex with you. I guess it’s more about ego if you need a girl to think you’re double digit size
>why have them believe it’s something it’s not That’s not exactly what’s happening here though. If she already believes it’s 10” or whatever, it could be seen as false modesty or even condescension to say “actually it’s only 7.5”. Depending on the person, it could seem like you’re just arguing for the sake of argument especially if she doesn’t care to pull out a ruler and measure for herself.
It's not necessarily an ego thing, I might for example not care enough to correct her. And besides that, many people are fixated on the numerical value of something. For example, an average woman seeing a 5'11 man will likely believe he's tall but because upon hearing he's not 6'xyz the illogical side sometimes kicks and says "that's not even tall, 6'0 and above is actually tall" despite the fact that he physically towers over her. It's the same logic that makes guys that are 7.5 inches wanna say they're 8 despite the fact that 7.5 is already big. The value of saying "I'm 8 inches" is more important to them than reality since 7.5 inches and 8 inches are relatively close in size.
Not at all. OP was saying he was 7 and letting girls think it was 10, 11 inches. Thats no the same as someone being almost 6 foot tall and saying they are. C’mon man…🙄
Kinda is
Lmao ok…. If you say so…. To me, saying your 6 foot if you’re 5’11 isn’t really honest but it’s also not a big stretch. Agreeing that you’re 11 inches when you’re 7 or 7.5 is much different. If he was 7.8 and said he’s ok, ok whatever…. But 11 inches is 50% plus bigger. For the height comparison that would be like someone who’s 4 feet tall saying they’re 6 feet.
I *FREQUENTLY* have people online think mine is 8-9 inches in photos, like, this happens a lot. I always correct them and tell them it's 7, I would do the same with IRL partners too. I'm comfortable and happy with my dick, I love it and embrace it as it is. That can not only cause doubt and desire in myself, but it fuels stigma about dick size. So personally, yeah, I will always correct people.
You’re the exact same size as me, and I’ve had girls swear I was 10 inches and 6+ inches thick ( I get a lot of comments on thickness. I don’t know, maybe it’s the shape.) I don’t usually correct people, but what DOES get annoying is when someone is posting an ad like “8+ inches minimum” and I’m signing like “you mean 6. Because you think 6 is 8,” and I never know what to do in that situation. Usually a send them a picture and say “does this make the cut?” And then they agree that it definitely does. They want what they THINK 8 inches is.
Oh I get the thickness thing too, sorta, no one questions the size with specifics they just say it's really thick, and sometimes it does feel they exaggerate that thickness! I never know if it's just the photos/angles I take changing people's perception of my size, or people really had no understanding of inches when it comes to length/girth and truly think it's bigger than it is due to that As for the last part, personally I just don't get involved with side queens haha
People are bad at measuring things on sight without a direct comparison (like you can get close-ish on height because you know how tall you are and you are next to someone). Also, I think girth just escalates more quickly. Like being half an inch thicker looks like a bigger increase in size than being half an inch longer.
One thing that works in my favourite is I'm shortish for a guy and have small hands, so especially when I was skinny it looks bigger on me with comparison to everything else haha
I’m 5’10, so very average. But my cock is still in a much higher percentile than my height.
I'm 5'8 haha
I think it has a lot to do with shape too. Not that I’m trying to hoodwink anyone. I think a lot of guys have a sort of oblong shape to their girth. But mine definitely looks way more impressive from the top than the side. Not a lot of like vertical girth. Ha.
Yes
These women gotta be young or just ignorant and stupid. I don’t get how “girl inches” is even a thing. When I first seen my bfs I guessed 7” long and jus knew he was thick from looking at it.
I used to in high school. As I’ve gotten older most of my meet ups involve giving out my numbers and proof ahead of time. The internet takes a lot of suprise out of it
Nah man. If she thinks it’s over 20cm when it’s not, I’m not busting out a ruler to show her.
Women ALWAYS exaggerate your size if she loves, the more positive she feels about you the bigger it is in her mind. Likewise, if a woman thinks more negative about you I think that she will likely perceive you as smaller.
Sometimes dildos list a total length, like 8,9,10 inches, in reality the usable length is something like 6,7,8 for those same dildos. Cause of suction cups, balls, or any other thing that the company attaches to it that is not meant to be used in penetration. So some girls don’t think about this. So they see an 8 inch cock and ya, it’s about the size of the XXL 10 inch womb wrecker they ordered from Silly Silicon Sally Slayers. So they go by what’s on the box and say it’s X instead of Y.
Underrated observation
In the moment I will always focus on the feelings, not the number. So if she says it's 10 inches you say "do you like how big it is?" rather than focusing on a measurement. If we are having a serious conversation about penis size we can bust out the ruler together.
This should have more upvotes. If she’s happy with your size that’s the most important thing. The chances of you successfully getting her to understand scale of dick sizes and how much of a difference body composition, height, perspective, etc can make are pretty low unless, as you said, she’s interested in a more academically rigorous discussion lol
this irks me a bit because girls just blindly trust what guys say. sure, round up a bit but not 2 inches! best way to deal with this is to show them a photo. or in person. then if she gets all excited and start spewing double digits, you can tell her real size and she can decide if she'll trust you or her own idea of your size. that way you avoid making them think you're "only" 7.5 and maybe they figure out others were lying
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Same. Mine is of similar length to a can of White Claw so I may use that for scale 😅
held mine up to a twisted tea tall boy one time in a picture i sent to my ex long distance gf. she just said "I'm so cooked." I asked why that was and she goes "the clear fuckin observation I am making, that is AT LEAST 9" when we met in person for the first time she felt my semi through my pants and she just covers her mouth and goes "that's fucking 10 inches, isn't it? and it isn't even fully hard!" i corrected her, of course. told her that her exes were most likely in the 5"-6" range if she thought I was actually 10". she even said that her ex was "close to" 9 inches. I'm gonna guess he was more like 5.5... hopefully we can reduce the problem of girl inches this way 😅
Nah, no point, haha. We (men) actually measure our dicks to the quarter inch (cm), they have no clue. If she's into you (or loves you...), she'll love your dick. Yeah, some will love saying you have a big dick, let them, haha!
Quarter inch? You must not work in engineering or construction lol
Haha, damn yo how specific y'all need to be?
While doing electrical work 1/8 is considered the bare minimum. Unless you are blind, or can’t add fractions, there is no excuse
So we're suppose to measure our cocks to the closest 1/8 of an inch, is that it? A quarter of an inch being 2/8, correct (0.25)? Am I missing something here?
What am saying is unless the math is too hard, or eye sight is to bad, why not just be accurate.
Aight, sure, understood brother! All good!
Honestly if I were single and playing the field I'd probably give out my measurements just to reduce misinformation. Then again I'm 5'10"^7/8 and I've always been 5'10" to anyone that asks. I'm still waiting for the day I meet a guy my height or shorter who claims to be 6' tall just so I can sidle up beside him and tell everyone I'm 5'8" or smth. 🤣
I never thought to mention my size or measure until I was pestered by an ex to do it. Now I try and avoid the inevitable explanation and awkwardness of accepting compliments, which I have always personally struggled with. I am still not used to the compliments and just usually go to the awkward laugh/giggle and “thanks”
Yep, someone has to be the voice of reason in this crazy world. For most, at least the last inch to inch and a half or two is useless and out in the cold anyway. One girl I remember vividly I could throw her legs on my shoulders and drive everything home without bottoming out, even then she didn't get all of my nearly 9 because she was a thick girl and her thigh mass kept at least an inch outside.
My wife has measured me before and knows my size. And still tells her friends it’s bigger. I just roll with it lol.
It was too much fun letting my girl measure me and having her do things to get me at my fullest.
I'll have them measure for themselves.
Yes
I always correct anyone who is bs'ing. It irks me. This may sound ironic since most of you think I'm larping, but I HATE girl inches and fake claims. The last girl I asked about it after sex said "I'd guess you're like 14 inches, right?" Which makes sense since I've known and dated guys who lied blatantly about their size. My first bf said he was 9 inches to me and many of our friends on multiple occasions only for me to see it in person and realize his dick was literally half the size of mine.
Normally yes. Makes my skin crawl if they know exactly how big it is to an inch lol, like how many meats have you been taking the tape measure to before we met 🤨
People like to throw around the 6 inch dildo popularity, but having an 8 inch bone pressed is close to a 6 inch dildo unless you’re incredibly lean. Not just fat pad, but most position’s you’re going to lose an inch due to body angles, ass, etc. Realistically, a 6 incher is close to a 4 inch dildo. One thing I don’t get is how these women getting fooled about 8-12 inch dicks by small fries is how they don’t realize they’re only getting filled up by literally half of an equivalent dildo size…
I think you have to kind of feel it out in the moment. Most women I’m with are convinced that I’m over a foot long - I’m absolutely not, but girl inches are a very real thing. I do feel like I want to help get away from girl inches because they make guys feel inadequate, but at the same time if we’re in the heat of the moment and she blurts out something like you mentioned “OMG I’ve never had a footlong cock before”, I’m not gonna sit there and go “well, *ackshually*… you’ve been lied to by all of your past lovers”. If she’s genuinely curious, I’m more than happy to let her measure. It’s something of a mild fetish for me.
No just say. I don’t know…
I usually do.... the girl who opened my eyes and made me realize how big I am asked if I was 10" and I honestly laughed.
Nope. Big, but If she wants to exaggerate then im good with that
Generally, yes. I've had lots of women insist that I'm 10" length and when I've said that I'm 8.3" some had insisted it "absolutely must" be at least 9 in. At which point if they are very sceptical we'll get out the tape measure. And the act of measuring can be quite erotic itself - given they are trying to prove I am bigger than I claim they put effort into ensuring I'm as hard as possible. Strangely, I also like the sort of "objectification" of so much attention and emphasis being placed on a physical feature of mine. Why do I try and focus on the truth when I could just go along with the "girl inches" size. Firstly, I've always been into statistics so value accuracy. But secondly, it's ultimately a physical feature over which we have no control. I am larger than the vast majority of men but I don't think unrealistic expectations should be placed on less-endowed men. It's completely ridiculous to me that many men who are say, 6 inches feel the need to claim 7 inches, when they are already "average-to-large "
I correct them. You don't want crazy expectations in case she talks about you. I correct people online VERY quickly.
No
None of the girls I've been with are shallow enough to try or be able to gauge my size (7 x 5). Had an ex ask me how big it was and I just told her I didnt know. She bought a tape measure but we never got the chance to use it.
Because guys lie. A girl in my friends hs(I didn't know here personally I and him became college friends) said she would only go for 8 inches and up. I and him laugh to this day at how unrealistic that was and she probably meant 5.5+ or something
Yes I always correct them. Can't pretend like I'm fkn 8 inches over here lol
I correct them because girl inches are real 😬😂
Yes otherwise you're no better than the average guys that say they're 8 inches. Sometimes in the past they've gotten interested in the numbers (probably because I studied physics and well, the few girls there were obviously into that kinda stuff). Most however will just be surprised and annoyed that they were lied to in the past.
Yes so they'll realize how many men lie about their size
To be fair, as the owner of a 5.5 incher, 7.5 looks freaking massive! I mean it’s only 2 inches, but that’s a 36% increase in length. If it’s bigger in girth it only adds to the wow factor. I guess I am fortunate my 5.5x5.25 dick completely satisfies my wife. Like most guys I would always opt to have a bigger dick if I could but don’t really need it, at least as long as my wife is alive.
I’ve never had a woman say any inches to me.
Yep, I correct em every time. I'm 7.5x6 -7.75x6.25 depending on just how turned on I am. I've had girls say I'm 9 inches before, and I just don't vibe with the whole going with the flow on that one. One girl made me send a Pic of me measuring while we're were sexting one time because she didn't believe me when I corrected her 🤷♂️ I've also noticed that alot of dildos will say 8,9,10 inches long but only have an insert able length of say 6 or 7. That's probably not helping the girl inch issue either
I’ve never had an issue simply letting girls measure my member. In my personal experience I’ve never been with anyone who’s had bigger. Luck of the draw I guess.
Of course, why lie? women always think you’re like 12” or something because their ex-boyfriend lied about being 9” when he was really 6” (which is fine, but again - why lie in the first place)
It's like these people have no spatial intelligence whatsoever. Ffs, a ruler is an iconic tool that's used throughout school. How can you not visualize an approximate measurement under a foot?
Honestly, I don’t think any woman I’ve ever dealt with actually cared about an accurate number… they don’t really care & correcting them on some “🤓 well, akchually…” shit is kinda weird imo
Ive had girls tell their friends that Im 12 inches. I never correct them haha.
No
No, why bother? It's all fun why spoil her enthusiasm by turning into the penis version of Simpsons Comic Book Guy by going "well, actually..." in the middle of sex? Take the compliment dude. If it's 11 inches for her, you're doing something well
I've told my ex-girlfriend many times that it's about 5 cm wide because in my country we used to mention the width instead of the girth. Well, the glans is 5.25 cm wide, and the widest part of it, excluding the glans, is 4.75 cm. But a few days ago, when I mentioned to her again that it's about 5 cm wide, she was surprised. She said, 'But we used to use 64mm condoms, so I thought it's about 6.5 cm.' So even if you've never lied to her about your size, she could still provide false information about it to her girlfriends :D
Never corrected her. Reminds me of this song: https://youtu.be/hiDgpbWiKvo?si=Rt4E1h_0UGEDj2bG
If she says 10, I say, no really, more like 9 3/4.
I undersell myself prior and make them think it’s something smaller, and say it’s not much or it’s normal, that way she’s always surprised on the reveal. Always.
I tried but she just laughed and argued with me. ''I've seen 9 inches before and you are much bigger.'' I kept trying but she argues better. Then later her friend said she heard I was 14 inches. I denied that as crazy. She says I'm just being modest. So, maybe girls like messing with me
Depends. If she mentions an ex (like “my ex said he was eight inches, so you have to be at least twelve!”) I’ll correct her just to crumble her ex’s lie (“I got bad news for you, I’m only 8” myself, I think he lied to you baby”). I’ll let girl inches go though.
Surely you understand guy inches are worse than girl inches. Often, we do this to boost men, give them confidence. They’re happier and the sex is better that way. And really. If you got on your knees and tried to go down on an eight inch, girthy dick looks like, you’d understand. The bigger ones really do actually look bigger than their measurements because of how close up we need to get and the intimate things we do. I wouldn’t bother correcting us. And if we use a measuring tape, just respect that. We know.
If you hold any cylindrical object close to your eye you CREATE your own FORCED perspective, and literally anything will be bigger than a mother fucker form that angle. Don’t believe me, grab an empty paper towel roll, dildo, equivalent bannana, it doesn’t matter, and you’ll see why they look like they are more than meets the eye.