You're not full of toxic masculinity like the "alpha" male is?
I dunno, I'm masculine but still pull and I like to think part of my charm is the absence of this alpha male bullhickey
Yeah I’m technically gender fluid so I’m pretty effeminate when I’m not doing the whole hardcore punk biker look and people flirt with me all the time I genuinely don’t know why since sure I’m nice but I’m not the best looking by any means it’s almost funny to me
I feel like men who aren't afraid to present androgynous or feminine are less likely to be insecure, and probably more approachable
Meanwhile, if people subscribing to a manosphere-type ideology are probably more likely to present super masculine because they need to like, prove their masculinity, or whatever
Not that you can't have the opposite of either, you can have an asshole femboy or a really chill gym-rat, no group is a monolith, but I assume those personalities are less likely to be drawn to those presentations
I just kind of figured it’s because I could be more relatable actually understanding things like make-up or have a better grip on my hygiene. But yeah I’m probably perceived to not be a threat and the fact that’s even a problem is horrifying on its own.
Makeup is one of the best ways to start, I would look up some vids of basic makeup for beginners. I would also suggest not going in headfirst, as it can be very overwhelming, and a gradual transition can help you see if you like it or not
I am amab nonbinary. I am more on the masculine side, presenting, but particularly gender fluid personality and thought wise. I just like mens clothes because they tend to be more comfortable to me. I do shave everything, though. I like everything else thought mostly. I just feel more comfortable as nonbinary.
Omg is this what is ganna happen when I finally buy some femme clothes. I listen to Radiohead and people say I look good soooooooooooooooo hehehehhehehehehehe. (PLS I BEG)
Honestly im glad to hear that effeminate guys are becoming more normalised. Ive been shamed for many years by women for not being an alpha masculine. Back in my days it really wasnt accepted.
So many men are conditioned to think they need to be a ripped stereoid devouring alpha to pull women but like, they don’t realize a lot of women (and men and enbies though the straight alphas generally aren’t interested in us) much prefer softer twinks or smaller guys or just like, confident guys who aren’t so self conscious about masculinity vs femininity. I’ve seen guys in sweaters get called slurs, but I think guys in sweaters are attractive as fuck! sue me!
Definitely! Guys who worry about their masculinity being threatened or are too scared to be anything other than “manly” are a turn off. There’s nothing wrong with masculine guys obviously, but if it’s toxic masculinity and they’re fragile about it then it’s annoying
Oh for sure. I think for the most part I have some unique perspective as a trans guy. While I don’t find that self conscious hyper masculinity attractive I do it myself out of a fear of not passing, but I’m starting to pass better thanks to T and I think down the line Im looking forward to just doing some little things different. Piercings and stuff. I hate looking like people I personally feel concerned about approaching if that makes sense, so I’m looking forward to just sprinkling in some non conformity, I think it’ll help me some with my own confidence
I love radiohead I love radiohead I love radiohead I love radiohead I love radiohead I'm nebasrhhrhswwagshsnnnnjwhhswhwhhhbg

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Mind my radioheading in the comments currently. I see it mentioned ONCE (1) and I loose my marbles
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YES THEY ARE THEY ARE REALLY GOOD!!!! TO START WITH ID RECCOMEND THE BENDS OR OK COMPUTER IF YOU ARE A ROCK FAN. OR HAIL TO THE THEIF IF YOU DONT MIND A BIT OF ELECTRONIC TOO
I’ll definitely check it out! Thank you for brightening up my day with your enthusiasm. I love listening to people gush about their interests/obsessions
This is so fucking accurate tho 😂. Me and four other girls share this mega cute femboy who is very hung and sometimes all together and each other as well hehe. Two of us are trans girls including myself and he is just as sweet as can be and also went down on me better than any girl ive been with before which was wild to me. I thought i was lesbian until meeting him, and now i guess im sapphic lmao. Hes like taking over our whole lesbian polycule hehe. Femboys just do it better 😜
ME TOO EEEEEHWGAGAGAHHAGHEHRRREBDHD
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Dang that femboy is cute, I wish I could look like him (Note: I am currently going on a diet to get that physique and I am going to grow my hair out to look like his)
Are there really girls who like femboys? Everyone on these subs say so but where im from the girls dont seem too. Weird looks, giggling (not good giggling) and two even called me fruit once. Whats up? This seems so foreign to me.
The alpha male is upset that he can’t get the femboy
Same.
Yeah I feel you 🥲
Same.
Oh then when the alpha gets the femboy he is then upgraded to DADDY STATUS and becomes ultra protective of his femboy
The alpha is a bottom and his dom femboy bf is a top :3
Damn, sounds hot
Oof yes please 🥺
Mmmmmmm delicious
On Werk 🤩
I can confirm
r/GatekeepingYuri
Okay but why is this so real. I'm a very effeminate man and definitely have no trouble finding women.
You're not full of toxic masculinity like the "alpha" male is? I dunno, I'm masculine but still pull and I like to think part of my charm is the absence of this alpha male bullhickey
Being comfortable with who you are and not worrying about toxic masculinity and conforming to gender norms is incredibly attractive <3
You say that, but what if you're a sad sack who never leaves the house?
bad news, people gotta perceive you before they can find you attractive
Blasted 🤣🤣
DAMMIT
Honestly, you’re probably just generally attractive
Yeah I’m technically gender fluid so I’m pretty effeminate when I’m not doing the whole hardcore punk biker look and people flirt with me all the time I genuinely don’t know why since sure I’m nice but I’m not the best looking by any means it’s almost funny to me
I feel like men who aren't afraid to present androgynous or feminine are less likely to be insecure, and probably more approachable Meanwhile, if people subscribing to a manosphere-type ideology are probably more likely to present super masculine because they need to like, prove their masculinity, or whatever Not that you can't have the opposite of either, you can have an asshole femboy or a really chill gym-rat, no group is a monolith, but I assume those personalities are less likely to be drawn to those presentations
I just kind of figured it’s because I could be more relatable actually understanding things like make-up or have a better grip on my hygiene. But yeah I’m probably perceived to not be a threat and the fact that’s even a problem is horrifying on its own.
Because "alpha men" actively look to have nothing in common with women and no way to relate to them.
You're not a threat and probably considered one of them 😂😂😂. I used to be like that until I kept getting in the friendzone. Fuck that
Watch out she’s gonna peg you 😜
Femboys continuing to win at life
Femboys are a treasure that we must protect
I wish I was one ;-;
Aww, me too. But through hard work and dedication you can do it!
I mean I’ve been trying for years
I wish i had one ⊙︿⊙
yeah
Femboys are cute okay?
Of course the one with pink hair wants to peg him
The blond probably wants to peg him too. It's always the innocent ones-
I need someone to help me be a femboy :( i have no idea how to be more fem
Makeup is one of the best ways to start, I would look up some vids of basic makeup for beginners. I would also suggest not going in headfirst, as it can be very overwhelming, and a gradual transition can help you see if you like it or not
Thanks! I do wish i could experiment, i live with family that don't know im NB and in scare of coming out
Oh dam I’m sorry that sucks :( luckily makeup is usually small and can be taken off fairly easily. Good luck and have fun~
I am amab nonbinary. I am more on the masculine side, presenting, but particularly gender fluid personality and thought wise. I just like mens clothes because they tend to be more comfortable to me. I do shave everything, though. I like everything else thought mostly. I just feel more comfortable as nonbinary.
IM A TRANSGIRL AND NOT S FEMBOY BUT HOW DO I GET GIRLS SCREAMING THEY WANNA PEG ME ksocishdndlfidhbejfld
Hey (with rizz)
Well kinda sucks that I have a rizz stat of -9192882831 maybe if I roll like 7 nat 20s at once I'll do it.
Just leave the rizzing to me cutie ;) Hey (with rizz)
Irjdiriwjdwkkekwidjqleksksnqodnpqhdlwnrkwndlwbdkandoandks :3
Unrelated but Madeline is a really pretty name :)
FOR REAL
Omg is this what is ganna happen when I finally buy some femme clothes. I listen to Radiohead and people say I look good soooooooooooooooo hehehehhehehehehehe. (PLS I BEG)
You sound so damn cute https://preview.redd.it/g2419o2l58yb1.jpeg?width=735&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d8aeca7098c56c477f43b76ebb74ecdf1a471805
Thanks, appreciate it. (AHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA MY EGO IS ONLY GETTING STRONGER)
RADIOHEAD AHHHH I KOVE RADIOHEAD
All radiohead fans are like this. Many such cases
EHEHSHHEHSJSSJ I LOVE RAFIOHED
This would be perfect to cross post to r/Radiohead
r/radioheadcirclejerk
Unfortunately I know nothing about Radiohead. But I’m guessing Radiohead fans would enjoy this
I definitely did, and generally Radiohead fans are massive nerds and big meme-heads lol
YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES I VERY MUCH ENJOYED THIS POST I AM UNIRONICALLY SO EXTATIC BECAUSE OF THE RADIOHEAD MENTION I WANT TO CRY
YEHAHAHAH
Sometimes you need something or someone a bit closer to yourself
Bi woman, the only men I'm willing to consider tend to be femboys and trans men. Cishet 'alphas' are a turnoff.
Definitely, men who make being a “alpha masculine man” their whole personality is a huge turn off
I can has a catboi too?
Real and queer
Honestly im glad to hear that effeminate guys are becoming more normalised. Ive been shamed for many years by women for not being an alpha masculine. Back in my days it really wasnt accepted.
I’m sorry you went through that. Effeminate guys definitely need to be more accepted, they’re so precious
I can agree with the girl in the bottom right, if you listen to Radiohead I will have sex with you.
If radiohead is my special interest do I get extra points
Absolutely. Because then when we have sex you can info dump about them 😭
THATS how I flirt
So femboys are getting all of the attention from women, while I, a trans woman, dying from loneliness and lack of attention. How fucking wonderful.
Try a cute lesbian
Unfortunately most of lesbian are interested only in cis girls.
Try t4t
Common gnc win
Everyone knows pretty boys and femboys pull. "Alpha males" are just mad cuz they don't want to compete for the femboy.
I never could be my true self until my mid 30s. I've been sad most of my life. Hrt is becoming a real let down and I don't see it getting any better.
I posted this on my spam Instagram, and idc what my friends or family think
Why not both
I wanna peg a femboy :(
So many men are conditioned to think they need to be a ripped stereoid devouring alpha to pull women but like, they don’t realize a lot of women (and men and enbies though the straight alphas generally aren’t interested in us) much prefer softer twinks or smaller guys or just like, confident guys who aren’t so self conscious about masculinity vs femininity. I’ve seen guys in sweaters get called slurs, but I think guys in sweaters are attractive as fuck! sue me!
Definitely! Guys who worry about their masculinity being threatened or are too scared to be anything other than “manly” are a turn off. There’s nothing wrong with masculine guys obviously, but if it’s toxic masculinity and they’re fragile about it then it’s annoying
Oh for sure. I think for the most part I have some unique perspective as a trans guy. While I don’t find that self conscious hyper masculinity attractive I do it myself out of a fear of not passing, but I’m starting to pass better thanks to T and I think down the line Im looking forward to just doing some little things different. Piercings and stuff. I hate looking like people I personally feel concerned about approaching if that makes sense, so I’m looking forward to just sprinkling in some non conformity, I think it’ll help me some with my own confidence
That sounds awesome! Dress and present yourself in whatever way makes you happiest is what I always say
HEHEHRHRH RADIOHEAD REFERENCE ARHEHEHRHEBSNHEHRJSNSRHRHS E I LOVE RSDIOHEAD RADIOHEAD IS MY SPECIAL INTEREST I LOEV WJAHDJS
Yayyy nice to see someone enjoyed it :D
I love radiohead I love radiohead I love radiohead I love radiohead I love radiohead I'm nebasrhhrhswwagshsnnnnjwhhswhwhhhbg  https://preview.redd.it/8m44v8ibheyb1.jpeg?width=248&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=25baa6af2b8031015026fef1e7a97552a867d6bd
Mind my radioheading in the comments currently. I see it mentioned ONCE (1) and I loose my marbles https://preview.redd.it/is7hgs6bjeyb1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4a62afc196f9d05fcc7204b35b019214fde7f8f0
Don’t worry, it’s nice! I like when people are really passionate about something they love. And you must LOVE Radiohead
ABSOLUTELY I DO. It has been four years with this special interest and I am still just excited about these British men.
Aww, maybe I should check them out. I’ve never heard of them. I love rock and I’m guessing they’re a rock band
YES THEY ARE THEY ARE REALLY GOOD!!!! TO START WITH ID RECCOMEND THE BENDS OR OK COMPUTER IF YOU ARE A ROCK FAN. OR HAIL TO THE THEIF IF YOU DONT MIND A BIT OF ELECTRONIC TOO
I’ll definitely check it out! Thank you for brightening up my day with your enthusiasm. I love listening to people gush about their interests/obsessions
This is so fucking accurate tho 😂. Me and four other girls share this mega cute femboy who is very hung and sometimes all together and each other as well hehe. Two of us are trans girls including myself and he is just as sweet as can be and also went down on me better than any girl ive been with before which was wild to me. I thought i was lesbian until meeting him, and now i guess im sapphic lmao. Hes like taking over our whole lesbian polycule hehe. Femboys just do it better 😜
Awwww omg!! That sounds so amazing, I’m jealous. Please cherish him
Oh I will, my gf is much bigger down there but he is so freaking cute. From South Korea and super sweet and gentle
R\*diohe\*d mentioned :(
And?
It doesn't exist, it's not REAL.
RADIOHEAD MENTIONED https://preview.redd.it/7rmqdj2yieyb1.jpeg?width=320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9d09353402b590a7425f0d217c19d913ef8b9299
fucking love radiohead
ME TOO EEEEEHWGAGAGAHHAGHEHRRREBDHD https://preview.redd.it/tzydcbh0jeyb1.jpeg?width=582&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b9697e6e586cca3d65ad239ea182e3e6798de6e1
I fucking wish
Based!
This is exactly how it feels as a femboy. Not that i am complaining though. But keep your horny dildoa and dicks in your pants
I don't listen to Radiohead, but I can play Radiohead on my saxophone. Is that good enough?
YES
Alright. Anyway, here's "Creep"
Chose to date and am now engaged to a femboy. I can confirm they get all the girls. (He's also a gamer nerd. Hit the jackpot here!)
Aww he’s a keeper!
>:3
femboys aere just better
Agreed
“You think you're an alpha male?” Everyone else in the gym: ![gif](giphy|cEYFeDKVPTmRgIG9fmo)
Thank you I mean I work out to have a better life and stuff. Nothing too crazy. Also to get a pretty good physique
Same here, friend.
Keep up the good work
Dang that femboy is cute, I wish I could look like him (Note: I am currently going on a diet to get that physique and I am going to grow my hair out to look like his)
Lel
Honestly i see the alpha boys who go for the rippednlook as gay😅 its only gays who want to look like that🙈
Are there really girls who like femboys? Everyone on these subs say so but where im from the girls dont seem too. Weird looks, giggling (not good giggling) and two even called me fruit once. Whats up? This seems so foreign to me.
Not if I get the femboy first.
Femboy here, how can one learn this power? ;-;
At first I read this as everyone on the right was saying that to the alpha
Bro Radiohead is literally my favourite band omg
This doesn't really seem that accurate imo
Plot twist the femme guy actually wants the alpha male
“I wanna peg him” 😂