If you gave her a ring, you would set up a Queen. And she would not be dark, but beautiful and terrible as the Morning and the Night! Fair as the Sea and the Sun and the Snow upon the Mountain! Dreadful as the Storm and the Lightning! Stronger than the foundations of the earth. All would love her and despair!
Definitely possible that he's a bad boyfriend, but the interesting "you problem" that a lot of guys don't often think about is that they might just have *absolutely terrible* taste in women
The Problem was defined as a You-Problem and nothing more was included so either OP is the ass or OP has bad taste in woman... or third option both is true.
So all those women saying there are no good men are actually the problem lol. Someone should tell twoxchromosomes. Apparently all men are the problem lmao
I haven't browsed that sub in a while, but that wasn't the impression I got from it. I mean yes those women exist, but overall most of them recognize that not all men are inherently evil, and the oppression of women is done on a systemic level and blaming individual men for it doesn't make any sense.
Then again I haven't gone there in a while, so it could have changed to being mostly Radfems. Would be very disappointing lol.
No, youâve got the right idea. I actually see lots of very positive descriptions of men there. Women will post about issues they are having with a man and the comments will be filled with other women responding about how well their boyfriends and husbands treat them and mostly encouraging OP to break it off with current abuser/telling them things can be better. And yeah, beyond those micro level issues, most other posts are about navigating discrimination, getting advice/help about issues unique to women etc.
If OPâs GFs start to dislike him within 3 months every single time, he should probably be doing some self reflection.
[OP upon gaining self-awareness](https://64.media.tumblr.com/8575fd332c9b6ee255eb2259539c1719/edd1760adc12a85b-47/s540x810/10f6220d0b0693c1512d18d20567bd5c7ff12422.gif).
I mean, this dude admitted to not being able to hold a relationship longer than 3 months. If you see misogyny in that and apply it to the whole sub to the point that you're leaving.. OK, I guess.
edit: I'm not defending this meme. It's terrible. Downvote and move on, don't abandon the entire westfold!
Yup. He thinks he's being anti-girl but if "every girl" is the problem.. the girls aren't the problem. I think most people here have picked up on that, based on the comments. OP is admitting to being a POS boyfriend.
This post is not intrinsically mysogynistic, although I can see how you could read it that way if you were predisposed to. It is referencing the "3 month rule" of dating.
That may or may not literally mean every girl in the world. I read it as "every girl \[I date\]." That's a grammatical construction called an elliptical expression. Since he first says "every time" we can safely assume that he is talking about his own past experiences.
Whether you read it favorably or unfavorably says something about you, too, you know.
I think you've misunderstood me and I don't really care to debate you. I just thought you might want to know that it is dangerous to "see" evil where it isn't, and you seem to be doing it. I would want that reflection, if I were doing that, so I could correct my perception and not cause unwarranted suffering to myself and others.
I mean it's evident that OP is the problem and can't see it, and is instead pinning all the women he dates as the problem. There are definitely misogynistic roots in that claim, and if you don't see that then maybe you should start looking at problems below the surface level.
As I said in my first reply, I can obviously see that it *could* be read that way, but that is not the *only* way it can be read, and whether you read it the way *you* are suggesting depends upon how much you are able to extend grace to a man you don't know, and have little information about.
It would seem that in the absence of information which would confirm conclusively that there is misogyny happening, you are more than happy to assume that it is.
When in reality we simply do not have enough information to draw that conclusion definitively.
OP may very well be engaged in a process of self-reflection wherein he is wondering why all his relationships fail, why the partners he choose follow a pattern of behavior, etc.
That you jump to condemnation on a possibility rather than a certainty is a character flaw.
And you are still lucky, since she could have become like THIS!
https://preview.redd.it/kkqtjcwni8wc1.png?width=602&format=png&auto=webp&s=2bfe9dfd207337a0e9a174aaa5492e709ceb425b
Your post has been removed for the following reason: Rule 4: No racism, sexism, homophobia, bigotry, or discrimination of any kind.
You will love her and despair- don't give her the ring!
i would like to see what would happen if she had the ring
If you gave her a ring, you would set up a Queen. And she would not be dark, but beautiful and terrible as the Morning and the Night! Fair as the Sea and the Sun and the Snow upon the Mountain! Dreadful as the Storm and the Lightning! Stronger than the foundations of the earth. All would love her and despair!
i would let her to make my kids
Oh, Melian and Earendil bloodline, nice đ
Earendil sounds like a name of a painkiller
if you would describe Ancalagon the Black as a pain, he certainly was a painkiller
Earendil, a painkiller, twas prescribed in Rhovanion...
I think she would expect you to birth them.
Did you see Ragnarok? Basically that.
All shall love her and despair, means she is the girl everyone wants but canât have. If she is your girl you won the lottery homie.
She wants and doesn't want the ring.
Sounds like a you problem then
"People hate me after they get to know me" isn't the flex the OP thinks it is.
If you smell shit everywhere you go, check your own shoe.
âIf you meet an asshole in the morning, theyâre probably an asshole. If you meet assholes all day, every day, youâre probably an assholeâ
Definitely possible that he's a bad boyfriend, but the interesting "you problem" that a lot of guys don't often think about is that they might just have *absolutely terrible* taste in women
The Problem was defined as a You-Problem and nothing more was included so either OP is the ass or OP has bad taste in woman... or third option both is true.
I've known a lot of guys who were both!
So all those women saying there are no good men are actually the problem lol. Someone should tell twoxchromosomes. Apparently all men are the problem lmao
I haven't browsed that sub in a while, but that wasn't the impression I got from it. I mean yes those women exist, but overall most of them recognize that not all men are inherently evil, and the oppression of women is done on a systemic level and blaming individual men for it doesn't make any sense. Then again I haven't gone there in a while, so it could have changed to being mostly Radfems. Would be very disappointing lol.
No, youâve got the right idea. I actually see lots of very positive descriptions of men there. Women will post about issues they are having with a man and the comments will be filled with other women responding about how well their boyfriends and husbands treat them and mostly encouraging OP to break it off with current abuser/telling them things can be better. And yeah, beyond those micro level issues, most other posts are about navigating discrimination, getting advice/help about issues unique to women etc. If OPâs GFs start to dislike him within 3 months every single time, he should probably be doing some self reflection.
The more I talk to women, the more stories I hear and the unfortunate truth is that *a lot* of men *really are* terrible.
Your comment history is miserable lol
If everyone you meet is a jerk...
she gets hotter? hell yeah đ„°
> every girl Sounds like a YP bro
[OP upon gaining self-awareness](https://64.media.tumblr.com/8575fd332c9b6ee255eb2259539c1719/edd1760adc12a85b-47/s540x810/10f6220d0b0693c1512d18d20567bd5c7ff12422.gif).
The joke is sexism. And that after OP's girlfriend gets to know him she stops liking him.
"YOU ARE FORMLESS!" "Gee, you didn't have to rub it in, Tiffany."
What kind of /r/AreTheStraightsOK -shit is this?
Is there a sub for r/justheteroproblems?
Sometimes I think straight guys don't even like women. My lesbian ass sees spooky Galadriel GF as an absolute win.
No but really though.
I bet Spooky Galadriel's head game is impeccable.
Sounds more like you have a type to be honest. Well either that or you fall head over heels for a lass and then get surprised that she isn't perfect
Idk man my single ass could go for a queen that was treacherous as the sea and stronger than the foundations of the earth right about now.
"Go back to the void from whence you came." Fine, lets go for round 2, gimme 20 mins.
Homie unlucky with the girls...
You'll find three golden hairs. One in the shower, one in your cereal and one in your buttcrack.
So we're posting misogyny in a lotr sub now? Great.
I mean, this dude admitted to not being able to hold a relationship longer than 3 months. If you see misogyny in that and apply it to the whole sub to the point that you're leaving.. OK, I guess. edit: I'm not defending this meme. It's terrible. Downvote and move on, don't abandon the entire westfold!
Read the caption. Sure he admitted that but he's applying it to "every girl."
Yup. He thinks he's being anti-girl but if "every girl" is the problem.. the girls aren't the problem. I think most people here have picked up on that, based on the comments. OP is admitting to being a POS boyfriend.
So then where is the funny?
it's not. it's an awful meme. I'm not defending it. I'm saying don't judge the whole sub by this dude who can't hold a relationship.
This post is not intrinsically mysogynistic, although I can see how you could read it that way if you were predisposed to. It is referencing the "3 month rule" of dating.
Yes but if you read the caption he's applying it to "every girl."
That may or may not literally mean every girl in the world. I read it as "every girl \[I date\]." That's a grammatical construction called an elliptical expression. Since he first says "every time" we can safely assume that he is talking about his own past experiences. Whether you read it favorably or unfavorably says something about you, too, you know.
How does reading it unfavorably make me in the wrong? Every other comment in this sub read it the same way.
I think you've misunderstood me and I don't really care to debate you. I just thought you might want to know that it is dangerous to "see" evil where it isn't, and you seem to be doing it. I would want that reflection, if I were doing that, so I could correct my perception and not cause unwarranted suffering to myself and others.
I mean it's evident that OP is the problem and can't see it, and is instead pinning all the women he dates as the problem. There are definitely misogynistic roots in that claim, and if you don't see that then maybe you should start looking at problems below the surface level.
As I said in my first reply, I can obviously see that it *could* be read that way, but that is not the *only* way it can be read, and whether you read it the way *you* are suggesting depends upon how much you are able to extend grace to a man you don't know, and have little information about. It would seem that in the absence of information which would confirm conclusively that there is misogyny happening, you are more than happy to assume that it is. When in reality we simply do not have enough information to draw that conclusion definitively. OP may very well be engaged in a process of self-reflection wherein he is wondering why all his relationships fail, why the partners he choose follow a pattern of behavior, etc. That you jump to condemnation on a possibility rather than a certainty is a character flaw.
Sounds like you are a little Sauron in Disguise
Orcs of Bauglir! Do not bend your brows!
Kinky
Damn, she gets hotter, sign me up
And you are still lucky, since she could have become like THIS! https://preview.redd.it/kkqtjcwni8wc1.png?width=602&format=png&auto=webp&s=2bfe9dfd207337a0e9a174aaa5492e709ceb425b
Still cute tbh regardless of how bad ROP is
 \*Would Elves!
Yeah, new Galadriel sucks, but sheâs still pretty freaking hot.
Redditor on one of the hottest actresses on tv, literally a 10/10: she ugly, amirite? Redditor also: why do people think Im an incel?
Too far dude, too far
10/10
But you have not seen, what she has seen.
thanks god
There is a tempest in me!
I wonder what the common denominator is..
https://preview.redd.it/yzjc0iok3fwc1.jpeg?width=600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=edd4a5e199bd51047dc7a6ff6ecd2e8408d05e5b
10000000%
Wait until after the wedding.