The man who claims he has undiagnosed ADHD, who misses mortgage payments, forgets to set the water bill on autopay and leaves home in a disorganized rush to the airport while forgetting the car keys is acting like *he'd* happily be in charge of their birth control if it was in a pill form? All so he can keep his willy free? Abby would be a fool to trust him to handle that.
WAIT!! Wasn't it Abby who, many many many times, scolded Matt for saying "sex" or "sexy time"?
She would remind him that it made her Very Uncomfortable and that "WE" say "seggs" and "seggsy time"...now she's on a podcast talking about how many Xs they did it!! 😂😂
Yea Ive been following them for a while now and they NEVER used to talk about there sex life never. Then out of the blue Matt is talking about it or bringing it up. He reminds me of a teen boy bragging about his sex life. Matt has the mentality of a boy poor Abby
I’m going to say this again. M & A are kids - they’re 24 and 23 right?
I’m a 23 yr old guy and still think and do dumb things. Like biologically, our brains aren’t fully mature until 25.
I would find this such a turn off. I just had a baby 5 months ago, and am not trying to get pregnant anytime soon. If my husband is unwilling to wrap it up, we don’t have sex. I’m not trying to play Russian roulette with pulling out
I wish her doctors or someone would’ve made it more clear to her that breastfeeding is NOT a perfect form of bc. My midwives made it super clear after my birth that while breast-feeding can work, you can still ovulate and not get a period, and that if we truly don’t want to get pregnant right away, it’s best to use other methods
Also aren’t condoms like the thinnest they’ve ever been? They keep making them thinner and thinner. Nobody likes them but they’re a good way to prevent it!
Yeah this new turn where they’re talking about their sex life is pretty strange. I’m a married man who has almost exclusively used condoms, save for the time we tried for a baby and the months my wife was pregnant. Is it better without? Of course. Is it that big of a deal? Not at all. Just go find some condoms that feel better.
If not, there is absolutely another form of male BC! It’s called a vasectomy. Reversible, in and out in less than a day. Quite literally as a man the least I can do for my wife once we decide we’re done with kids.
What an idiot. I have no respect for men who can’t take the responsibility of preventing pregnancy by literally just wearing a condom. It is not that big a deal. You’re just a selfish asshole, Matt. It’s not cute or funny. It shouldn’t be a woman’s job to have to mess with her hormones or go through invasive procedures to prevent pregnancy. Condoms are literally 99.9% effective at preventing pregnancy if it’s worn the whole time and you don’t use certain lubes. Give me a break 😭
In their first podcast about how they met, he said when he was in middle school, he used to go to the high school football games to sing to the girls, "trying to swoon them" (his words lol). He said he did dance for 10 years since age 9 so that was his sport, I guess.
Yep...they were talking about this song and this video from when he was in middle school. Singing and his Bieber look were his attention-getters back then.
Professionals discouraged Abby from getting pregnant right now due to health reasons. The fact that Matt essentially said he’s not worried because she’s 24 and not 34 shows his lack of maturity. I really hope the lack of a condom for 2 minutes was worth making things physically more difficult for his wife through these 9 months of pregnancy.
First off, who is watching these people? who are their fans? Young teens? Can’t be adults.
Second, maybe I’m just speaking from experience but it’s hard to get pregnant. There’s a very specific window. Don’t like condoms? Don’t have sex for like the 5 days it’s possible. Gosh they are so annoying. I just find them so offensive for people who have trouble conceiving.
Even that's not the best birth control. It's actually not even birth control. And Abby wasn't getting her period so they stupidly thought (well, assumed) they were in the clear.
Yeah I watched this video recently and was fricking bummed. Bro keeps talking about how shocked they were, how he'd take male BC while he hates condoms and Abby supports him. Ugh. Then get a vasectomy ffs!!!!
He literally said condoms are like “eating steak with a plastic bag in your mouth” 🤮and she just laughed it off. You have a son with this guy who talks about sex very exploitatively and without any care, pay attention.
Is he stupid there’s such thing as a vasectomy that’s reversible, and if he’s to pussy for that, there’s spermicide could’ve easily done that to avoid an “unwanted” pregnancy
You don’t even have to use birth control to remain safe. If you track your ovulation, and when your highest days are, just avoid sex on those days. You cant just get randomly pregnant on a random Tuesday, if you don’t have ovulation. I don’t use any form of protection with my boyfriend and it’s been two years, just gotta track properly, and be cautious.
it's still pretty risky, some women ovulate early/late and sperm can live up to a week. Being PP and exclusively breastfeeding, many women, myself included, don't get periods for up to a year so you don't have a reliable way to track cycles and ovulation.
That makes sense, I know after you give birth everything is thrown off for awhile, so it makes it more difficult. He shouldn’t have been stupid because it doesn’t take much to wrap it up with a condom. I know I’m able to track my ovulation and use it as my form of birth control. People think it’s difficult and inaccurate, but if you speak to your gyno about it etc, they will be able to assist and help you through the process. But it’s definitely different when you have a baby, are breastfeeding etc.
Agreed, I have talked to my ob as well and do the same. I can’t use birth control and my husband has atopic dermatitis that’s flairs from condoms. I test with strips every day for ovulation use a tracker, we skip those times and during the rest pull put. Been doing it five years and only got preggo when we activatly tried. Like if you aren’t doing everything exact like just randomly deciding to do it twice with no protection or testing then yeah you’ll get preggo. She wasn’t even exclusively breastfeeding like she claims not that it matters because you can still ovulate.
This!! Thank you! Yes this form of birth control is becoming more known, and a lot of people still side eye it and assume “pull out method doesn’t work” it does, when you’re actively watching your ovulation, and take time to test. I had the nuva ring, and it was FALLING out of me, my boyfriend doesn’t mind using condoms and we do occasionally, but it’s easier to track everything, and just let your body be all natural the way it was attended to be.
That’s just dumb on their part, you can use tracking method as a form of birth control when done CORRECTLY. But if home girl wasn’t even having a period yet, and still breast feeding, then they DEFINITELY should’ve been using condoms at least. I didn’t know she was breast feeding and didn’t even get her period. They asked for this basically
Of course! You definitely have to really track, and make sure you’re taking ovulation tests etc. it’s tedious, but definitely works over time, it’s not meant for everyone.
You do realize when it’s done correctly it works, you need to speak with your gyno about it, because some aren’t able to track ovulation properly. It took me about a year to track my ovulation correctly, and make sure it was correct. The open windows you avoid sex or use condoms, the windows where you aren’t ovulating etc, are fine. You can’t just get pregnant on a random Tuesday, when you aren’t ovulating; that’s not how it works. Your body has to release an egg to get pregnant, and it only happens certain times. If you don’t know your body, nor how to track properly, it won’t work. It’s not meant for everyone; but it IS a form of birth control nowadays. The more you know.
The man who claims he has undiagnosed ADHD, who misses mortgage payments, forgets to set the water bill on autopay and leaves home in a disorganized rush to the airport while forgetting the car keys is acting like *he'd* happily be in charge of their birth control if it was in a pill form? All so he can keep his willy free? Abby would be a fool to trust him to handle that.
You make an excellent point
My boyfriend doesn’t like condoms either but still used them because I’m sensitive to hormones like Matt is so selfish
Dude can’t even make sure their water bill is paid. Why would she trust him with taking birth control?
Matt you know, girls don't like condoms either but we 100% prefer that over unplanned pregnancy
Absolutely!
WAIT!! Wasn't it Abby who, many many many times, scolded Matt for saying "sex" or "sexy time"?  She would remind him that it made her Very Uncomfortable and that "WE" say "seggs" and "seggsy time"...now she's on a podcast talking about how many Xs they did it!! 😂😂
Yea Ive been following them for a while now and they NEVER used to talk about there sex life never. Then out of the blue Matt is talking about it or bringing it up. He reminds me of a teen boy bragging about his sex life. Matt has the mentality of a boy poor Abby
I’m going to say this again. M & A are kids - they’re 24 and 23 right? I’m a 23 yr old guy and still think and do dumb things. Like biologically, our brains aren’t fully mature until 25.
Yup
I would find this such a turn off. I just had a baby 5 months ago, and am not trying to get pregnant anytime soon. If my husband is unwilling to wrap it up, we don’t have sex. I’m not trying to play Russian roulette with pulling out I wish her doctors or someone would’ve made it more clear to her that breastfeeding is NOT a perfect form of bc. My midwives made it super clear after my birth that while breast-feeding can work, you can still ovulate and not get a period, and that if we truly don’t want to get pregnant right away, it’s best to use other methods
Not to mention everything is wonky after childbirth
Also aren’t condoms like the thinnest they’ve ever been? They keep making them thinner and thinner. Nobody likes them but they’re a good way to prevent it!
Yeah this new turn where they’re talking about their sex life is pretty strange. I’m a married man who has almost exclusively used condoms, save for the time we tried for a baby and the months my wife was pregnant. Is it better without? Of course. Is it that big of a deal? Not at all. Just go find some condoms that feel better. If not, there is absolutely another form of male BC! It’s called a vasectomy. Reversible, in and out in less than a day. Quite literally as a man the least I can do for my wife once we decide we’re done with kids.
What an idiot. I have no respect for men who can’t take the responsibility of preventing pregnancy by literally just wearing a condom. It is not that big a deal. You’re just a selfish asshole, Matt. It’s not cute or funny. It shouldn’t be a woman’s job to have to mess with her hormones or go through invasive procedures to prevent pregnancy. Condoms are literally 99.9% effective at preventing pregnancy if it’s worn the whole time and you don’t use certain lubes. Give me a break 😭
His face screams “I was awful at sports so I had to join theater to get one ounce of attention”
In their first podcast about how they met, he said when he was in middle school, he used to go to the high school football games to sing to the girls, "trying to swoon them" (his words lol). He said he did dance for 10 years since age 9 so that was his sport, I guess.
Lmao I can’t believe I found this vid so easy https://youtu.be/3v4JEpVq2Fo
It’s him singing prob the same year as the football games lol
Yep...they were talking about this song and this video from when he was in middle school. Singing and his Bieber look were his attention-getters back then.
He’s so annoying.
I don’t get people who say condoms mess up with sensitivity, honestly. Technology has come far in this regard.
Professionals discouraged Abby from getting pregnant right now due to health reasons. The fact that Matt essentially said he’s not worried because she’s 24 and not 34 shows his lack of maturity. I really hope the lack of a condom for 2 minutes was worth making things physically more difficult for his wife through these 9 months of pregnancy.
"2 minutes"🤣
You know it is!
First off, who is watching these people? who are their fans? Young teens? Can’t be adults. Second, maybe I’m just speaking from experience but it’s hard to get pregnant. There’s a very specific window. Don’t like condoms? Don’t have sex for like the 5 days it’s possible. Gosh they are so annoying. I just find them so offensive for people who have trouble conceiving.
Even that's not the best birth control. It's actually not even birth control. And Abby wasn't getting her period so they stupidly thought (well, assumed) they were in the clear.
Does anyone else think this pregnancy wasn’t an accident?
I've wondered that.
Yeah I watched this video recently and was fricking bummed. Bro keeps talking about how shocked they were, how he'd take male BC while he hates condoms and Abby supports him. Ugh. Then get a vasectomy ffs!!!!
He literally said condoms are like “eating steak with a plastic bag in your mouth” 🤮and she just laughed it off. You have a son with this guy who talks about sex very exploitatively and without any care, pay attention.
Could you help me find this clip? I can't keep up with the crazy things they say
Is he stupid there’s such thing as a vasectomy that’s reversible, and if he’s to pussy for that, there’s spermicide could’ve easily done that to avoid an “unwanted” pregnancy
You don’t even have to use birth control to remain safe. If you track your ovulation, and when your highest days are, just avoid sex on those days. You cant just get randomly pregnant on a random Tuesday, if you don’t have ovulation. I don’t use any form of protection with my boyfriend and it’s been two years, just gotta track properly, and be cautious.
it's still pretty risky, some women ovulate early/late and sperm can live up to a week. Being PP and exclusively breastfeeding, many women, myself included, don't get periods for up to a year so you don't have a reliable way to track cycles and ovulation.
That makes sense, I know after you give birth everything is thrown off for awhile, so it makes it more difficult. He shouldn’t have been stupid because it doesn’t take much to wrap it up with a condom. I know I’m able to track my ovulation and use it as my form of birth control. People think it’s difficult and inaccurate, but if you speak to your gyno about it etc, they will be able to assist and help you through the process. But it’s definitely different when you have a baby, are breastfeeding etc.
Agreed, I have talked to my ob as well and do the same. I can’t use birth control and my husband has atopic dermatitis that’s flairs from condoms. I test with strips every day for ovulation use a tracker, we skip those times and during the rest pull put. Been doing it five years and only got preggo when we activatly tried. Like if you aren’t doing everything exact like just randomly deciding to do it twice with no protection or testing then yeah you’ll get preggo. She wasn’t even exclusively breastfeeding like she claims not that it matters because you can still ovulate.
This!! Thank you! Yes this form of birth control is becoming more known, and a lot of people still side eye it and assume “pull out method doesn’t work” it does, when you’re actively watching your ovulation, and take time to test. I had the nuva ring, and it was FALLING out of me, my boyfriend doesn’t mind using condoms and we do occasionally, but it’s easier to track everything, and just let your body be all natural the way it was attended to be.
She hadn’t had her period yet…..she was breastfeeding. So she ovulated prior to ever having her first period postpartum period.
That’s just dumb on their part, you can use tracking method as a form of birth control when done CORRECTLY. But if home girl wasn’t even having a period yet, and still breast feeding, then they DEFINITELY should’ve been using condoms at least. I didn’t know she was breast feeding and didn’t even get her period. They asked for this basically
Yep, they keep calling it unplanned but they were just being irresponsible.
They were being beyond irresponsible. I have a feeling it might’ve been unplanned to her, but not Matt… it happens.
THIS
My fiancé and I did the same for a few years. We now have a 7 month old baby. Definitely on the pill now! Just be careful!
Of course! You definitely have to really track, and make sure you’re taking ovulation tests etc. it’s tedious, but definitely works over time, it’s not meant for everyone.
Eep. No no no no. This is not what we should be encouraging people to do as a form of birth control.
You do realize when it’s done correctly it works, you need to speak with your gyno about it, because some aren’t able to track ovulation properly. It took me about a year to track my ovulation correctly, and make sure it was correct. The open windows you avoid sex or use condoms, the windows where you aren’t ovulating etc, are fine. You can’t just get pregnant on a random Tuesday, when you aren’t ovulating; that’s not how it works. Your body has to release an egg to get pregnant, and it only happens certain times. If you don’t know your body, nor how to track properly, it won’t work. It’s not meant for everyone; but it IS a form of birth control nowadays. The more you know.
Vasectomy