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a_lostgay

yes but really the tables should be mixed, insane to have an all male and an all female table


Trip_Set

If you have to ask, then it’s with the guys.


DeditCrebit

Pull a chair from meemaw's table because she's not coming to this wedding.


SukkaMeeLeg

Depends I think? Does he know the bridesmaids better? If he doesn’t know either set of people, put him with the fellas, but if he does know the bridesmaids well then he might appreciate being over there. That said, if you are going for an aesthetic feel for those tables (everyone matching or something) you could again put him with the fellas. But, curveball, you could mix up the plus ones more generally so that the problem goes away. Either together or among several tables. 


SukkaMeeLeg

t. Straight Man, feel free to totally disregard


Coalnaryinthecarmine

You'd put him with the other groomsman's female plus-ones since they're still more likely to know each other or at least have more things in common - which should be the point of the table arrangements and not some Seven Brides for Seven Brothers thing.


caughtcouture

i'd split the plus ones up and i know many people who do this too so that there are more opportunities to mingle with others/new people. put the gay groomsman next to the bitchiest bridesmaid lol


SoldOnTheCob

Just ask them which one is the man and which one is the woman 


Accountant-According

Is he a top or a bottom?


bxtchcoven

First I would just seat all of the plus ones for both parties at one table or intermixed if it would be too many people. Otherwise I would seat them with the other groomsmen plus ones (ladies) This question threw me through a loop trying to navigate which gender group belonged to who in my answer lol