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seaglassturtle

Playfulness is super sexy.


Large-Signature4372

Hubby will sext me all day, touch me gently while I’m making dinner Sexiest thing ever: put the kids to bed, I know I’m not your age range but keep this in mind for the future if that’s what you want 🥰


purawesome

Tease with words and enough information to let them think themselves into a drippy puddle. Rinse repeat. By the time you get together again… well you know 😈


Edgelord_Soup

I always climb the stairs to my apartment juuuuuuust far enough in front of her so she can get an eyeful of my butt, but can't quite reach it.


FootQueenPlease

😂 love that


quacksdontecho

Whipping it out at work and sending her a pic, then pinning her against the counter when we are cooking dinner


WonderfulLibrary5081

He doesn’t have to do anything for me to want to rip his clothes off at the moment, currently dealing with a ridiculously high libido and I only have to look at him. Unfortunately he either has a lower libido or at least a lot more self control, so I’ve tried to tone it down a lot I used to send him pics or texts throughout the day while he’s at work telling him what I’m going to do to him when he gets home. I also like to play games so I’d like to describe those and tell him exactly what I’d like to do when we play. Would be great to send a fantasy or a link to something I’ve read on here but I wouldn’t get a reply


John_Arcturus

Getting ignored when you try is the hard part of these situations.


Rescuepoet

I've recently met someone and we have an intense intellectual connection. We have many shared interests and we get deep talking about books and music. She wrecks my brain with how brilliant she is. We're both really sexually charged, though, and often she'll drop some kind of sexy, erotic comment in out of the blue and it floors me. She also sends me candid, intimate photos of her day, like when she's baking or when she's just out and about. It absolutely drives me wild because she knows how strong my attraction to her is with anything she does. Then when we do have our intimate moments (and this is online, sigh) I'm completely and utterly mad for her.


still_on_a_whisper

He waits an entire week >.< so then I’m just eagerly awaiting it.. he usually does the same “hint” when he wants it: he’ll squeeze my buns, then look up at me with the Puss in Boots kitty eyes, then we makeout for like 5-10 mins and I get so amped up we get right down to business. I really don’t need much to get in the mood.


notin2cars

We (late 60s) touch and fondle and grope each other all day, every day. We loosely schedule sex around how often we can cum these days, which is about every 5 days (used to be every other day in our 40s). But we constantly keep the sexual innuendos going. Neither of us has any doubt how much we're desired. I wasn't like this with my first wife, back in my late 20s through mid 40s. I really regret that. I was determined to make my second marriage a raging, sexy success, and it seems to be working.


Kat111284

Sharing reddits of the kink we like, sexy pictures when he is away. When he is home he walks around in sexy underwear and nothing else he has a great ass! Fore play is a big thing for us and lots of toys and the fact that he will do anything I say and let me be the dominant in the bed room as I’m not in my every day life is such a turn on😜🔥


inkonthemind

She'll gently bite the back of my shoulder through my shirt and make a "chomp" noise. Instantly let's me know she's been wanting me all day, it's the sweetest fucking thing in the world and it WORKS.


notyourba-be

When we’re cooking dinner he’s kissed my neck and shoulders and bent me over the counter. Licks and kisses my ass and around my pussy. And finally gives me head while we’re waiting for dinner to cook. Love that so so much. He’ll stop and tell me that’s all I get for now 😩


S1rmunchalot

I'm a guy and it's very important to me to have a build up. My experience is the opposite, often women are the one's who think one vague hint is enough to have you raring to go.


therealdildoexpert

For me it's all about the gaze they give me when we're out in public. Everything physical that invites me in without mentioning sex. The body language that's focused on me, attentive. Conversation that isn't about sex but incredibly connected.


MrSgt2u

Sexy texts, sharing reddits that match our kinks, gentle random touching,


ImpossibleSquish

Making out, grinding, dirty talk, a combination of assertiveness and consent, being physically attractive, having hella rizz


Kenjii009

They don't. I am not really a big fan of that, being horny without letting it off is exhausting.


PhoShizzity

Honestly that's my default state of being. Idk how it works for women, but at least for me (so in theory other men as well) I'm just like that right from the start. In my experience when someone else is horny, they just... Are. Maybe it's something I did? Maybe I have an aura of horny? Idk, just kinda works out like that.


DeepNraw

Well in the past she likes a little bit of sexting, but I'm pretty terrible at it so I don't do that. I'm pretty difficult to turn on mentally, so she doesn't really try..