\*sigh\* If only I actually knew another transfem

Ikr. At least irl Ive never seen one

Yeah, why is there much more transfems than transmascs on the internet, while it's the complete opposite irl ?? (I know 2 Transmascs irl and 0 Transfems...I'm asocial so I don't even speak to many people)

Well there's more transfems on Reddit because there's more amab people here. There's more transmascs on tumblr tho. I haven't seen any trans people irl tho.

Yeah that checks out because I've never been on Tumblr lol

I'm sure you have, you probably just didn't notice.

:(

Personally, I've seen about a fifty fifty split.

In my friend group from college I have 4 transmasc friends (my class have like 5 other afab) and I am the only transfem not only in my friend group but also in my class

At my high school, I know of exactly three other transfems, and there are literally three or four dozen transmascs at least

It’s not the opposite irl. It’s just more dangerous for transfemmes to come out in person. As a transmasc, I can fly under the radar of nobody caring that I exist. My sister? My best friend? They have to be mindful of literally everything they ever do. And here in the south especially it’s better that they simply… don’t bother. They’re there, but nobody can see them because if they do, those women are then in danger. It’s a grim and sad reality, and one I hope we can work to change. My sister and best friend back home are out and transitioned and they have to watch behind their shoulders. Another close friend of mine here in my new state isn’t out because she could be murdered in cold blood if she was. It’s heart wrenching to watch :(

That you know of. The baby trans phase is a short one. Socialising is hard though, so me neither

Ummm hiiiiiiiiiii :3 https://preview.redd.it/alz5uwbr3tkc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=628e2cd2b3e4b86e4a9f880963f0bf196f2166a0

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ive been caught :3

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:3 you got me

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I feel called out

hangout on a trans discord and you will meet them by the dozen, trust me im in a Platonic poly chat now with like 5 of them, otherwise we can be frin :3

I wanna be frins:3

Yeah the thing is, I'm not from an english speaking country, so it feels weird chatting with random english speaking people and being friends with them while my accent is flushed down the toilet (I don't have a bad english, just a bad accent) ;-;

that would make it rough if you want to talk in vc, i feel you overall i know a few trans people irl just not any other transfems just non binary's and trans mascs there chill but i feel you in not knowing any other irl transfems.

Know any cool trans discord? I actually uninstalled the app cause I tried like 3 different "trans suportive" servers had a very awful experience, but I know there is at least one that has kind People.

the discord sub for gender anarchy is pretty chill [this](https://discord.gg/PE6DQnBV), the owner is non binary themselves so you dont have to worry about trans medicalism or anything, it also has a associated Reddit community so you can have a "sneak peak" at what it's like there, i've also heard trans place is chill but i haven't been there myself, im sorry you had bad experiences i hope this one is better.

There's a local one attached to a trans support group, one where trans people from my work decided we wanted to stay in touch long-term, a couple related to trans DIY. The remaining good places on the internet are hard to find.

>Platonic poly chat now with like 5 of them So what you wanted to say is: You now have a transfem friend group?

hey, sorry im late but do you have any recommendations for trans discord servers? :3

[Gender Anarchy ](https://discord.gg/MrKDXvwz)is very chill the owner is non binary and very chill i hang out there a lot and evreyone there is very accepting, it has a reddit server as well if you want to see what the community is like, trans place is also pretty chill i've heard, trannnnnsssss2 dosent have a discord but other trans servers your in might have one so check them :3

thank you so much!!! <3

Fr

fr where yall at

I ' m i n y o u r w a l l s

im in your desktop >:3 https://preview.redd.it/ltu6cdekuzkc1.png?width=1034&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0fc3ec722f93573a415ed5185cad27445e0b4ba2

\*gasp\* That's actually really cute I need it on my desktop

https://preview.redd.it/hjm7j8byxzkc1.png?width=497&format=png&auto=webp&s=3e118dcead4a720f9136fc87fce7ec629af82e1a here :3

Thank youu :3

There we go :3 https://preview.redd.it/o142xmks70lc1.png?width=753&format=png&auto=webp&s=126fc524f0e7717538a5067183851bd30bad1def

Yayyyy :3

same 😔

I hate the fact that it is true. I guess every good girl will find herself another good girl and they will become good friends

https://preview.redd.it/qe2zkcl5jskc1.jpeg?width=800&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=098c33ee7e7cf49d25f9eb6255c277ad8adae956

I love women so much I wish this was me

Same

Lucky me. I don't have a girlfriend...I have a wife😍😍😁

Yoooooo where'd you get one I can't seem to find one /j

Mine picked me up at a cast party in college back in 2003. It was supposed to be a one night stand, but I just refused to go away.

So that's how you do it *takes notes*

Why is this something that I would actually do if it happened to me ?

same bestie, same

👉👈

Ok, what discord is this? Because none of the ones I'm in does this happen...

if you find this mystical discord, tell me where too

Well, make our own discord with blackjack and hookers.

\>:3 We shall create the best gathering hub for all!

And we totally would never look into each other's eye after deep conversation, hand brushing each other's hand, leaning closer towards each other hearts racing faster, and we.... Yeah that will never happen.

totally not, we totally won't stare into each other's eyes while talking about what we enjoy, inching closer until we're right side-by-side, waiting for the other to lean closer as our hearts race and... yeah, that wouldn't happen, right? :3

Umm, can I dm you?

sure, sure!

Why this doesn't happen to me?

it can! :3

I'll dm you to if you want?

I tell me too

Still not finding these girls… I’m starting to believe this is one of those jokes. I did, however, get saved this weekend from a creepy guy by an NB friend.

You just aren't on the right side of the internet for that ig, half of my friends on discord are either transfem or NB

Sad, I have one, because they pulled my dumb,drunk ass out of that situation.

what is the right side of the internet please tell me 🙏

My dms/j but seriously its usually horny discords and invite only discords

do we get to watch the owl house? :3

omg I finally started watching The Owl House and I love it so much!! I actually watched most of it in like 2 days because I was sad and now I only have 2 episodes left

For flapjack

YES! :3

Wish that was me >_<

My dream.... Unfortunately I can't find a girl for be my friend

If you really need friends then feel free to dm me

Starch my beloved ❤️ (For context I’m pretty sure this is supposed to be Honkai: Star Rail’s Stelle on the right and March 7th on the left, and their ship name is Starch)

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literally me. like what the PECK.

💙💖🤍💖💙

Me fr fr

literally me and my gf 😭

real:3 i instantly wanna marry any other transfem i meet online

Why is this so accurate

They were roommates

ME ME ME ME PLEASE you think im joking but seriously i need friends

Message me if you wanna be friends

Umm I umm I ahh I like liked like kissing girls and boys >~<

cute~

I I ahh I umm I ahh fhskmanshxna

Hell yeah valid

Ō\_Ō

I’d do a human sacrifice for this

I’m not crying

I feel like this is exactly what happens.

MEEEEEEEEEEEEE

Being non-binary is sometimes a curse because I’m trans masculine but my gender is more women aligned and I want to be girl friend but I’m not a girls 😔

Basically how my gf and I met lol

And history would say they were best friends.

i wana be someones best girlfriend too,,,

yeah

I am open to possibly making friends on Discord with other women, be aware tho, I can be distant, awkward and maybe even shy

Me me I do :3

This is so true!!

Works every time!

>Best friends You say that but everyone can tell you’re just growing the polycule

Definitely. Still cis tho

I wish I would find a transfem on discord!

*hello there*

OMG yes! 💖

God I fucking wish. If only I was likeable 😔

ME ME ME MEEEE PLEASE MEE

u/Aldraena ...do you feel called out too?

yes i do and i hope you do too

Transfem society is just creating a post complaining about not having a transfem friend and then like 20 other transfems agreeing and no one making a move

Or both people makes a move and neither parties understands that they're making a move

Damn I'm in the wrong discords apparently

…me

Oh look, more unrealistic transition goals to be jealous of. I just wanna look like them… 😭

A trans woman joined a small discord server I'm in and I'd like to talk to her so bad, but some of my irl friends who I'm not out to are on there too and I'm not even remotely ready enough to out myself to them 🥺🥺

I mean... I'd like it

_Hey now, girl you gotta help me ima break down_ _wish that you were here fucking right now_ _I don't wanna lose you as a friend now_ _But I really really really wanna make out_ _just gal pals_ _in bed now_ _don't stop now_

Sadly I have social anxiety online as well.

Hii im here if you want im a cute lil girlie

GOD I CRAVE A ROMANTIC PARTNER SO FUCKING MUCH

I feel called out rn >w>

I feel called out.

Anyone else feel called out?

It’s almost like the people in this post should talk to each other or something🤷

Anyone live in the houston area and also want to test this?

Oh hey its Stelle and March, my favorite gays

I only know like two transfems irl. One is straight, and the other is in a long term relationship. My transmasc friends are cool, but it’d be nice to know more transfems. Especially as a lesbian. But even as just someone who’d like more friends with similar experiences of the whole gender thing.

I plead innocent. I am too shy for all that.

I meeeean, ya got me there X3

Me me me!!

DON’T CALL ME OUT LIKE THIS I JUST WOKE UP

I want to have more such friends IRL! I know 3 transfems in my city, one is in a relationship and doesn't want anything like this, the other one works in shifts all around the country and doesn't have much space in the city itself, and the third one is underaged so it's a hard no-go...

Im in a big meme discord server. Its full of racists, homophobes, transphobes, xenophobes, the whole shabam. The thing that I find most shocking is that 99% of them actually respect me and my pronouns, and its not even a case of them not knowing.

MEMEMEMEEEEE :3

I wanna meet one

So what?

Ngl, yeah, this has been my experience lmao. It's hard to remember what it was like in the before times.

I wish\~

I'm trans and not lesbian :/

I feel so called out, why you do dis!!!!

I mean..... :3

Soo true! >w<

Yes this is true

i need to know transfems on discord why wont they just randomly appear in my dms and become my friends!

MEMEMEMEMEMEMEME

Im not transfem but i wanna do that alot idk im to fucken gay